beta
The slut shaming was awkward oof
But for when it comes to people saying “he can do it with whoever he wants, he isn’t dating anyone”, the reason why it’s frustrating/painful is because they are having a “moment”. Basically imagine being on the “flirt” zone with a guy (or girl) to whom you just confessed and they reciprocate and come onto you too but then they go and sleep with someone else. It’s like “well guess you just don’t care about me then”.
If the person is courting me or reciprocating my courting, I hope for heck that they don’t go look for someone else in the process just because they are bored and horney. Anyways that’s not the type of person I want to date and have by my side. Too hard to trust.