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guys this is completely unrelated to manga but i need a strangers thoughts and opinions on this. I've been talking to this guy for about a month now and it's going well so far, it's really slowburn but i don't mind, his birthday is soon (the 15th) and i ended up spending over £200 on his gift, however my friends told me it was stupid to waste that much money on a guy i barely know and i'm gonna regret it because it probably won't last long. I'm not sure though, but yeah i see their point because £200+ is a lot for a 17 year old, but he seems so worth it, AND i've already bought it now..
keep it for urself tbh
i don't wear silver :(
I’ve never seen someone use slow burn to describe an irl relationship until now wtf
im guessing 200£ is a hell lot of money and for a 17 y/o... i advice you to sell it again... there's a 50/50 chance that you're gonna regret it but it also means you won't sooo, just trust your gut
If you think he’s worth it and it’s something that you can afford then I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. I would agree that it’s a lot of money spend on someone you’ve only known for a month, but it’s your choice at the end of the day.
Give him nothing at first, like pretend that you got him nothing for his birthday and then wait for his reaction, if he acts up and start behaving like a duche dump his ass and sell the gifts, if he acts like a mature person and doesn’t cause a scene then give him his gifts
it's basically the same as 200 dollars, i'm gonna trust my gut and see how his behaviour is until his birthday
true point, i guess i spent a lot because i'm only used to buying things for girls and not guys, but he seems worth it
thank you!! i will absolutely be doing this
If you do that can you update us wanna know what happened (￣∇￣")
why would you do that omg no man is worth that much money at 17
I did stuff like that at that age and honestly not worth it. I lowk expected them to do the same for me but it doesn’t happen esp if it’s not a defined relationship, it just feels super unbalanced and I felt pretty bad about myself after it ended.
Maybe you can return it, 200 is a lot for a gift, not only bc you’re young. But yeah up to you yolo
yesss!! i absolutely will update, ill be giving it to him next friday
honestly its kind of like a gamble, since im unable to return it ive decided to give it to him as its for his birthday and not any other occasion, im kind of nervous because ive never really done this before thats why i spent so much on him on a whim, he doesnt even know i got it for him, but i truly do hope he doesnt expect anything else, i dont expect anything but loyalty.
im scared now everyone told me i fucked up by doing this
neeeeed something similar to "do you still like me?" preferably completed or more than 25 chapters
i know this seems weird..but i was re-watching the notebook today and gunner saying he may come back with the greenhouse as a gift reminded me of the scene where noah built the house with blue shutters just for allie.
Gorl that’s so different like how did you even ??? Gunner is using the green house as leverage cause he knows the only thing theo wishes is that house. He is deadass manipulating and gaslighting him.
I’m aware gunner is not a good person I never said this comparison was a good thing either I’m just saying it reminded me of it in no way do I support gunner whatsoever
Thank god cause i thought if you liked gunner you needed therapy lol sorry my bad