its your behaviour, or how you treat mlm relationships irl
https://teeaa-draagoon.tumblr.com/post/638620321691353088/a-psa-fujoshis-let-me-explain-why-being-a
this lists the general issues
i'd say if you dont display any of the above behaviour then just dont call urself a fujoshi ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭
it isnt doing you any good, you'll just attra......