honestly same, tho she always thought to herself that i wasnt that type of person. she said its bcs i mostly diss n jokingly pick fights w guy friends more than girls, idk y its a 'pick me trait' but tbh i just feel like its easier to throw insults at each other w guys..
how u can 'stop' being a pick me tho? tbh, its entirely up for other ppl to ......