Sometimes I feel so ashamed because I’m 17 and still don’t have a life nor a job or even friends and I feel like my parents are disappointed in me because of that and now I think I’ve become mentally unwell I’m not even sure why I’m here or what my purpose is
Same... i'm 21... and i feel like shit. I feel like im dumb and ntg will go my way... sighs :(( more of an introvert and stutters in convo..
me too :./ 17 here as well, and my parents yell at me all the time for being useless and hard to deal with lmao.. I don't think they understand the concept of mental illness because I'm just called lazy when I'm really trying :// plus I'm too afraid of social events and stuff so I can't put myself out there to make new friends and get a job :'' you're not alone <3
I’m 15 and is already going through this, I’m getting to that stage soon.
Same I'm 17 I have finals and I know I'll fail cause they're my last exams. And if I don't have my subjects I can't get a job. I have friends but I rather stay in my room and watch anime or some shit and nobody even cares to ask if I'm ok. I'm also the eldest child but I have already disappointed my parents with accomplishing nothing.
You can be doing nothing with your life and still have a purpose. You are still valid even though you feel like a disappointment. Coming from an old person, I feel like my purpose is to be alive. To experience reading comics from the comforts of my couch. To play video games. Since I'm older, I have other things that give me purpose. I'm sorry you feel like you're parents are disappointed in you. Has something happened to make you feel that way?
I stutter too! Or just like....can't get my words out. I've been that way for my whole life! I often have to pause and rephrase my words. So I totally relate with feeling dumb.
Y’all remember when we were on mangago and we always seen some shit about pubic hair being eaten with something or be reading something so unpleasant but kinda hot that would be forever burnt into our memoryヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
yeah and thats when i first felt like crying and laughing together
lol what
Of topic but do y’all ever go to the bathroom thinking you gotta shît but all that comes out is stinky air?????
this is called a fart
Ik that I just liked how it sound
why are so loud get the fuck off your phone
ur so lovely TvT
Oh my God I literally just told my counselor all my personal business and now they wanna call me im sweating bucketso(；△；)o
Wait what? I hope nothing bad happened :0
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eliminate the target
Why is it that most children and teens forgive their parents so easily when they are being very toxic towards them
Because their parents are the only ones that have. You can't exactly leave and run away and become homeless. Sure you have friends but their parents aren't going to just adopt you and let you live in their house.
well, we have to stay in their good books until we're independent. atleast thats why i put up w all their bs, bcs i realized that arguing w them will just give em another reason to bash me
I forgive others easily because of the feeling of inferiority. My mother is probably one of the reasons why I think that someone older than me has the higher authority. And I continued with that mindset until now. I don't really know how to stand up for myself, I'm basically a pushover. If I was a character of a story I'd probably be that one character every reader hated due to the fact that I'm a coward and a pushover.
Sometimes kids are raised to think that you should always forgive your parents no matter what they say or do. I heard one of my parents said at one point that "you have to listen to us, no matter what we say" implying even if it's wrong. It's a twisted mindset to ignore the toxicity and manipulate yourself into thinking that what they did is nothing (and maybe what you did was wrong).
Bro wtf my dad says that all the time
Is this with everybody or just your parents?
I got bashed last night worst experience ever but it’s OK because I only have two more years and then I’m out I will get my revenge when they get older(⌒.−)＝★
I really do hope that the newer generation of parents remember how they were treated when they were younger and and if they were treated but I really do hope that they treat their kids better and see their kids as people and not property
istg, the moment i turn eighteen (one year for me), im getting out of this place. and then everyone can go fuck themselves
yesss, but tbh i think that there would be less ppl wanting kids in the newer generations? but maybe that’s just me and the ppl around me ╮(￣▽￣)╭
well when i was a kid, my parents always guilted me into doing shit, and a lot actually don't know what they're going through abuse. its honestly scary how much a parent can shape the minds of a kid whether it be in a good way or a bad.
I wish I could say the same thing as you but damn I think I'm dancing on my mother's palm no matter what I do and it's getting confusing to differentiate which is manipulative or not now
Warning may be a lil uncomfortable for some ppl
So last night I got pushed down to the ground hard and dragged by the hair to my room first time that has ever happened to me(being dragged by the hair) and ofc i was cry but as I was crying I wasn’t feeling anything i thought that If something like that ever happened to me I would feel sad or scared but I didn’t feel anything and I have know idea why i cried it was like I just had to in order to fit what was happening at that moment
Something like that happened a month ago I was grabbed my wrists and then pushed against the bedroom door hitting my head then after they were done yelling and screaming and I guess showing that they where more dominant I got pushed to the floor again I wasn’t feeling anything nor was I shocked that it happened I felt like I was used to it even though it was the first time they ever put their hands on me
I’m looking for something with no romance to read with a decent amount of chapter idk
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/spy_x_family/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/zombie_world/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kusuriya_no_hitorigoto/ (romance if you squint)
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/medical_return/ (romance but not major aspect at all)
I have a partner that I’ve known for about 4 years now and about a year ago we started dating for the third time and for some reason this time feels different I’ve been wanting to emotionally hurt my partner but I have no idea why whenever I talk to them I just have this urge to hurt them really badly and because of that i’ve been feeling guilty and Scared that one day I might say something that I would regret I actually love my partner and I don’t want to end are relationship just because of this error I have no idea if I should get professional help or if I should just I don’t know
You need to get a therapist hun, it's not healthy to want to hurt someone especially when they're your partner. Either leave them or get some help and confide in them about your thoughts. Honesty is the best policy, even if they're upset they have the right to be. No partner should want to emotionally scar their s/o. But if I were you i'd get therapy and if that doesn't help you should break up. That's abusive thoughts.
You're crazy. I would break up with them if I were you because that's just messed up asf. Get therapy and help. No one who actually loves their partner would want to hurt them
Bruh it's not normal, see a therapist or talk with someone who can help you. You could turn your relationship in a toxic/abusive one and that's not okay, if you don't think you can hold back those thoghts and actions just break up before you hurt them seariously.
sounds like intrusive thoughts [unwelcome thought, image, or idea that causes distress] to me, which the person can't control [not by themselves]. intrusive thoughts about harming someone is a common category of these thoughts
there are many ways to cope with intrusive thoughts, which you can google search [one resource i found: https://adaa.org/learn-from-us/from-the-experts/blog-posts/consumer/unwanted-intrusive-thoughts]
and remember, thinking about it does not equal wanting to do it
I guess only you truly know why. I don't know why you guys broke up and got back together, but it can create some rift in the realtonship.
I know with my previous ex in HS i got back together with him like 100 times because I was lonely.. And he was lonely I'm sure, but we both trusted each other a bit less for each time, and no matter how we apolgized it never truly healed the relationship.
I’m dying for some Taco Bell right know I could eat 20 tacos (╯°Д °)╯╧╧
pizza
Don’t you just hate when your siblings think that they the shit just because they got themselves a little girlfriend and a phone I swear a bitch Be thinking they run the whole fucking house (︶︿︶)＝凸
Ong A group of girls came up to my sister saying, “this boy wants your snap!!” And now shes thinking shes the shit