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Contracts aren't really used in real life and they're more of a warning sign anyways (unless signing the contract itself is part of a play). Also, safe words aren't nearly as common as people think. They're only necessary if acting as if you don't want it is part of the play. A normal "no" or "stop" usually is enough.

Yeah idk where the idea of contracts really came from, but safewords are only common in bdsm (more so heavy stuff) but even then partners will just say what they like or not simple as that (▰˘◡˘▰)

I think it was in 50 Shades of Gray and now everybody thinks contracts are normal.

idk about u but if i had to read abt limits/safewords in every single bdsm manga id lose my mind

LMAO NOO （/TДT)/ out of all the movies THATS what people get ideas about bdsm from
Damn no wonder the community gets a lot of misunderstandings

Oh i got the BDSM contracts from this book where the sub got paid to work at some club and it was actually rather heavy not like knife play heavy but not fifty shades of grey light so i honestly thought it was normal. Also random comment but was I the only one who felt like 50 shades of grey was extremely unemotional.

I got BDSM from reading Vampire Diaries fanfiction I read 50 shades of grey with this girl at summer camp ╥﹏╥

You’re not the only one on that last comment lol
I think anyone who’s watched it knows that it’s unemotional and overall bad movie no matter where you look ╮(￣▽￣)╭

Like when he told his girlfriend he liked her because she looked like his mom i thought it would so a bit less roboty

I think for me it was this book that wasn’t bdsm related but damn that torture scene really messed my head up (the dude who was being tortured also ended up loving the idea of being controlled and stuff lmao (≧∀≦)

I just think its fascinating that ANYONE could trust someone that much

wait what was the book? it kinda sounds interesting

oh god i have no clue it was a wattpad book so...

Shit you are right.it wouldn't be an exaggeration to say that kimin would probably hurt kyuyeon at some point in their relationship.

um well as someone who has quiet BPD I don't think I have ever even considered so much as slapping someone I love (Brothers excluded) but emotionally hurt him yeah I can see that

I am sorry if I offended you,it's just that kimin seems like a really intense person and he is also not on any medication.so,I thought it was safe to assume that but still emotional abuse is still abuse.

He probably told him to do that as a form of revenge kinda like establishing "I like him so fuck off I'm over anything you could say". Plus Chris will 100% be ok. From what I've seen in this story and others, he won't touch Chris by the concern of Yoon despising him or acting out. Plus, Chris isn't really a threat he is just concerned for Yoon's safety, but as long as Yoon is happy and Chris doesn't mess with shit then he will be ok.