lina January 31, 2024 3:36 am

reading this as a hindu makes me giggle a bit lmfao

    Lakwatsa February 4, 2024 11:59 am

    The cultural offense must have been

lina December 3, 2023 2:39 am

reread this and ima give yall the same opinions I had more than 2 years ago when the arguments on this site went crazy:
**Just a reminder to readers that yes, Haesoo and Joowon used to be stepbrothers (though, only for 3 years), and it is completely understandable if you might be uncomfortable with that. And if you are, don't read this manhwa. Their past is the driving force of this narrative, and to take their past away would mean that this story would not exist (if that makes any sense).**

In my eyes, each of the characters obtained a suitable ending based on their growth, self-reflection, and maturity throughout the manhwa. In short, they got what they deserved. Nearing the conclusion of this manhwa, they had all made important realizations:

Haesoo’s greatest obstacle was his lack of personal agency. Rather than prioritizing his own feelings, Haesoo took on the burden of considering what his mother wanted, what Jowoon’s father wanted, and what would be best for Joowon’s acting career. This burden made him miserable thinking his love for Joowon was wrong. Haesoo was under the misconception that he was the only one suffering throughout his relationship with Joowon. He assumed that Joowoon had it easy as he perceived his life to be “perfect.” This led him to feel inferior to the success of Joowon’s career, and as a result, Haesoo sought to make Joowoon suffer as well. Following Joowon’s declaration: “don’t fall for me, and I won’t fall for you,” Haesoo was unsure how else to feel loved. From that point on, Haesoo manipulated Joowoon’s emotions—making him feel angry/jealous for his sake. The hospital scene when he conclusively expressed how he felt towards Joowon, was the first time he truly followed his heart and expressed sincerity towards Joowon without any facade or manipulation. During his monologue, Haesoo demonstrated remorse, realizing he was wrong for being vindictive and wishing Joowon would suffer. He recognized he didn’t genuinely mean those things, because when Joowon actually got hurt, it broke him.

Joowon had commendable intentions as a teenager. He assumed that keeping their relationship undefined would protect what they had. On account of their taboo perpetually haunting him/them, this carried into adulthood. Not only was Joowon stuck in the past, but he had also feared abandonment as he believed Haesoo previously abandoned him once after the divorce. He deluded himself into thinking that pushing his idea of an undefined relationship was the best route for them because Haesoo would inevitably leave “if things got too serious.” Through their separation, Joowon reflected on his mistakes, acknowledging that regardless of his intentions, he hurt Haesoo through his words (“don’t fall for me, and I won’t fall for you”). He recognizes that he became arrogant thinking that Haesoo would never leave him due to the 10 years they shared with one another, and how he acted far too much upon Haesoo’s provocations on account of his immature attitude. Henceforth, Joowon strived to take responsibility for his mistakes, facing his own fears and realizing that he’d rather get hurt and abandoned by Haesoo than to not tell him he loved him. After all, love should be selfless like that.

From my judgment, Joowon had the most self-reflection and development in the manhwa, going from impulsive and arrogant to mature and braver with his feelings. I must add that both Haesoo and Joowon were constantly driven apart by external pressures that affected their actions (ex. their initial taboo, their parents, Joowon’s career, etc.), so I can’t blame the issues in their relationship solely on themselves. Ultimately, both of them learned that to make their relationship work, they had to set aside their personal fears/obstacles and prioritize each other.

Takekyung had a history of exes that he toyed around with and manipulated for his photography career and self-interest and began to see Haesoo with similar intentions. He willingly jumps into Haesoo’s story with ease as he, himself has never experienced heartbreak. However, Haesoo had exceeded his expectations consequently teaching Takekung a well-deserved lesson, that of which is: you can’t manipulate people’s emotions to make them love you. For instance, Taku’s quote: “I wanted to burrow inside that void [Joowon] left in you, and then I would kick him out in any way I could.” He thought he could make Haesoo love him, but now realizes he can’t.

Each of the characters presented in Love or Hate are carefully layered. Their actions throughout the story in hindsight are similar to the people we can see around us. They all exhibit selfish qualities and can show a degree of immaturity, possessiveness, or manipulation. In reality, that’s just how people are. They aren’t downright monsters, however, they aren’t saints either. When encountered with their feelings or trapped in complicated and difficult situations, characters tend to make mistakes and act irrationally just like regular people do. These are genuinely flawed characters with some ugly qualities and bad decision-making skills that reflect real people.

lina September 5, 2023 6:36 am

it's veryyy telling that this is one of the authors first works, but their writing definitely improved by the end of the manhwa. I'm reading their bl "Jackpot" and it really shows just how much they've grown (not only in writing, but art as well). Hopefully they make another gl down the line

lina July 13, 2021 6:30 pm

Can yall just remove the manhwa entirely, i dont wanna see anymore people upload more chapters in the future. Have some respect for the author. Please.

lina June 15, 2021 7:33 pm

i love this story sm but im rlly curious, would this be considered a love triangle or not?

    Kittenface18 June 20, 2021 11:26 am

    Guess so? It’s not technically a complete triangle, but you have two people interested in the main guy, so it makes a 45 degree angle sort of LOL

lina June 2, 2021 3:11 am

c'mon how tf you gon name yo kid "Chacha".....like damn

Artist: DJ Casper
Album: Cha-Cha Slide
Released: 2000
Genre: Pop
Lyrics
This is something new
The Casper Slide part two
Featuring the Platinum Band
And this time
We're going to get funky
Funky
Everybody clap your hands
Clap, clap, clap, clap your hands
Clap, clap, clap, clap your hands
Alright now, we're going to do the basic step
To the left
Take it back now, y'all
One hop this time
Right foot, let's stomp
Left foot, let's stomp
Cha cha real smooth
Turn it out
To the left
Take it back now y'all
One hop this time
Right foot, let's stomp
Left foot, let's stomp
Cha cha now y'all
Now it's time to get funky
To the right now
To the left
Take it back now y'all
One hop this time
One hop this time
Right foot two stomps
Left foot two stomps
Slide to the left
Slide to the right
Criss cross
Criss cross
Cha cha real smooth
Let's go to work
To the left
Take it back now y'all
Two hops this time
Two hops this time
Right foot two stomps
Left foot two stomps
Hands on you knees, hands on your knees
Get funky with it
Oh yeah
Come on, cha cha now y'all
Turn it out
To the left
Take it back now y'all
Five hops this time
Right foot let's stomp
Left foot let's stomp
Right foot again
Left foot again
Right foot let's stomp
Left foot let's stomp
Freeze
Everybody clap your hands
Come on y'all, check it out y'all
How low can you go?
Can you go down low?
All the way to the floor?
How low can you go?
Can you bring it to the top?
Like it never never stop?
Can you bring it to the top?
One hop
Right foot now
Left foot now y'all
Cha cha real smooth
Turn it out
To the left
Take it back now y'all
One hop this time
One hop this time
Reverse
Reverse
Slide to the left
Slide to the right
Reverse, reverse
Reverse, reverse
Cha cha now y'all
Cha cha again
Cha cha now y'all
Cha cha again
Turn it out
To the left
Take it back now y'all
Two hops, two hops
Two hops, two hops
Right foot let's stomp
Left foot let's stomp
Charlie brown
Hop it out now
Slide to the right
Slide to the left
Take it back now y'all
Cha cha now y'all
Turn it out
To the left
Take it back now y'all
Three hops this time
Right foot now
Left foot now y'all
Cha cha now
Turn it out
Be lookin' out for part three
It's gonna be comin' to you soon
But right now we gonna keep this groove
Here we go, to the right, to the right y'all
To the left
Take it back now y'all
Four hops this time
Right foot now
Left foot now
Cha cha now y'all
Cha cha again
Cha cha again
Turn it out
Take it back now, y'all
Right foot let's stomp
Left foot let's stomp
Six hops this time
Right foot let's stomp
Left foot let's stomp
Right foot two stomps
Left foot two stomps
Criss cross
Slide to the left
Slide to the right
Let me hear you clap your hands
Cha cha now
Cha cha again
Turn it out
To the left
Take it back now y'all
Two hops, two hops
Two hops, two hops
Right foot two stomps
Left foot two stomps
Hands on your knees, hands on your knees
Ah, yeah
Get funky with it, get down now y'all
Come on, come on, cha cha now y'all
Let's go to work
As I told you before
This is the Casper Slide part two
I am the originator of this slide
If anybody tell you any different
They're telling you dead wrong
So in the meantime, in between time
I'm outta here
Platinum, take 'em home
Ah yeah, mm hmm
Yeah, yeah, do that stuff, do it
Ah yeah, I'm outta here y'all
Peace (peace)

    lina June 2, 2021 3:13 am

    itsg if yall don know this song

    Euna June 3, 2021 4:40 pm

    Lmao bro it's a fetus name, it's not actually gonna be the child's name, it's seperate lmao, imagine being named cha cha cha

    TSUKKISAV June 3, 2021 7:25 pm

    It’s a nickname for the baby bc they haven’t thought of a name yet

    lina June 3, 2021 8:41 pm
    Lmao bro it's a fetus name, it's not actually gonna be the child's name, it's seperate lmao, imagine being named cha cha cha Euna

    OH RLLY....

lina June 2, 2021 2:44 am

did i just see gojo edited onto a human body...

lina May 31, 2021 2:56 am

i read this when i was like 10, omgggg

lina May 31, 2021 2:52 am

im coming back here to tell anyone who hasn't read this yet to READ IT RIGHT NOW.

lina May 27, 2021 2:26 am

sorry but this was straight ass yo☠ the only reason i even bothered to give it a read in the first place was cause it's an omegaverse GL, but yknow what, it still fxcking sucks. The charcters are annoying as sh^t imo and the art is bad(im sorry).

    lina May 27, 2021 2:35 am

    there are so many better GLs.....why hype this up

    May 27, 2021 10:54 am

    I agree. I’ve finally given this a read and only being disappointed in the end... :/

    tiffany June 2, 2021 7:27 am
    I agree. I’ve finally given this a read and only being disappointed in the end... :/

    truee

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