Red flag big humongous red flag. Like maybe a restaurant... idk a teeny concert but a motel?!?!?uh-uh
You don't know who he is anymore, which means that he doesn't know who YOU are EITHER.
Now what does that leave you to be to him? An idea---> a concept---> a body.
you are completely valid in feeling hurt. But you're responsible for your safet......
