I've heard people, some in the LGBTQ+/GRSM community, some not, claim that straight cis women liking BL/yaoi is "fetishization" of gay men and that it's problematic. I myself am AFAB but still questioning my identity, and I really like BL and yaoi, though the people that call it "fetishization" really make me feel alienated and ashamed. I personally don't see why it's a problem for women to enjoy gay male relationships as long as they aren't bothering real gay men. I also don't think it's necessarily wrong for straight cis men to like lesbian relationships either, as long as they don't harass real lesbians.
That poor fucking dog