HonestlyIdk's Things

For the people that don't want to have children, do you have a reason?

For me, I don't want children because I feel like I wouldn't be a good mom. Like I'm not trying to be negative or anything I just genuinely feel that my personality wouldn't be a good fit or like... I wouldn't be a good role model? I don't know the word. I just think that I don't have the ability to raise a child properly and that they wouldn't turn out the way I had hoped or would be a bad child or wouldn't have manners. I'm not saying I'm a bad person or would be a bad influence, I just don't know how to raise them. I also don't like when they are young because most children are bratty.

Also, other factors are the community and the environment. I personally believe that the future seems bleak and I don't want to raise a child that will have to live in poor conditions. People believe that we will live for a long long time but I believe we are going to run out of time soon. An example of this is the rapidly declining water and global warming. That stuff is happening a lot faster than most people think and it doesn't help with a climbing population. Then the community... well speaks for itself. I don't want them to be influenced by others and it seems like people get worse with every generation so I don't want them to end up bad.

I would like to have a child if these issues didn't exist, but chances are, I won't have a child. Oh, and also my main goal in life is to travel, so I would either have to give that up or save a TON of money, which would mean I wouldn't be able to go to all the countries I wanted to go to.

P.S. Do you guys think people truly consider their child's future? Like how I considered the community and environment, I feel like other people don't take that into consideration and have a child based on their own selfish needs which really irritates me when I think about it. If you made it this far, thank you so much!!

So I've been seriously thinking about getting a tattoo for almost 2 years now? There is one or two I would like to get but I guess the first one I would want to get is something related to horoscopes.

Sooo I was wondering what everyone's opinion was? I'm a libra so:

Should I get the constellation, symbol, or scales to represent it?
Thennn I haven't been able to decide on where to have it, so any ideas?

I was thinking wrist or back of shoulder but I think it depends on what form I want (Talking about the constellation and stuff again).

Please do give suggestions ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~ Some of you might say it's my choice but I'm having a hard time deciding so that's the point of me asking! ^^

First things first, I lack both sympathy and empathy, so I apologize beforehand if I end up offending people.

So really I'm wondering if I'm taking virginity too seriously or other people are just taking it too lightly. As I was growing up I was always told that virginity was really important and it should only be lost to the one you love. I'm assuming it's because of this I believe you should wait until you're married.

I'm horrified seeing tons of people lose it when they're a teen, just 'experiencing', or before they're married. In all honesty, I'm disgusted and don't have very good opinions about those people. I could never understand why you would do such a thing, even if you use protection there is still a chance of pregnancy. Although the chance is very low, you still can't pretend it's 0...

Plus, usually they break up anyway, then when they do find the right person they no longer have it. Is it just not as important as I thought it was? However, I am obviously still aware that you can still divorce even after marriage but I don't know...

Again, I apologize that this came out harshly but it's my honest opinion, not trying to fight with anyone or anything. I just want others thoughts on this.

(Also I'm a teenager)