
I dropped the novel, but this?. The art is just it

https://lunarletters.com/manga/flowers-are-bait/prologue/
Here's the novel link

She's stupid as f*

Right like god forbid a girl who didn’t grow up with any kind of proper education or around people who don’t care to teach or anything about life be confused and not notice manipulation happening to her since birth. Like can yall PLEASE give this poor girl a break, she’s been on survival mode since day 1 lol
I'm actually really curious about this BDSM thing. Is it acquire by some trauma or they grow up and just realized they are into this? (Respectfully)
In the comic? I’m not sure this isn’t a healthy portrayal of bdsm by any sense at least they had safe words but that’s a damn low bar and basic to be met.
Personal experience it can be a little of both. Some you can be born with others you can develop. Some of mine I pavloved myself to have like audiophilia. Depending on the tone it either puts me to sleep or it’s arousing. Same thing with sharp pain I just convinced myself when younger that I wasn’t in pain with skinned knees stubbed toes etc. it now shows up as loving sharp pain as an adult. (Do NOT do anything near my face it’s very sensitive neck down for me is fine) Then the one for sure I’ve always had is rope/ bondage that is just a sensory thing overall.
Hmmmn.probably the main reason are the people who has this kind of kinks and then when they separate ways from their partners, the other maybe they somewhat like looking for that kind of set up. So they will like recruiting more people into BDSM. I suggest to read 50 shades of gray, its a novel though, it’s BDSM too but not a BL..
Sure BDSM can come from trauma. But some people are just into it without any trauma. Whether it's because they like to feel control (dominants) or like to be controlled (submissives). Or enjoy feeling pain (masochists) or inflicting pain (sadists) it's just a sexual preference. And everyone is different (their limits and what they're into). The most important thing is consent and communication and TRUST!
like what he had with other guys? not bdsm. they were just violent with him. if there's no communication and an agreement to what the play is gonna be, safewords and aftercare? you're just being abused.
Anyway i'm not an expert on any of this, you could find way more on the internet haha
(i know one of the comments mentions 50 shades of gray but that's a bad depiction of BDSM so I wouldn't recommend it if you actually are interested in BDSM)