kya's Things

"(...) We are tired of being analyzed, defined and represented by people other than ourselves—or worse yet, not considered at all. We are frustrated by the imposed isolation and invisibility that comes from being told or expected to choose either a homosexual or heterosexual identity. Monosexuality is a heterosexist dictate used to oppress homosexuals and to negate the validity of bisexuality.

Bisexuality is a whole, fluid identity. Do not assume that bisexuality is binary or dougamous in nature; that we must have "two" sides or that we MUST be involved simultaneously with both genders to be fulfilled human beings. In fact, don't assume that there are only two genders. Do not mistake our fluidity for confusion, irresponsibility, or an inability to commit. Do not equate promiscuity, infidelity, or unsafe sexual behavior with bisexuality. Those are human traits that cross ALL sexual orientations. Nothing should be assumed about anyone's sexuality—including your own.

We are angered by those who refuse to accept our existence; our issues; our contributions; our alliances; our voice. It is time for the bisexual voice to be heard. Do not expect each magazine to be representative of all bisexuals, for our diversity is too vast. Do not expect a clear-cut definition of bisexuality to jump out from the pages. We bisexuals tend to define bisexuality in ways that are unique to our own individuality. There are as many definitions of bisexuality as there are bisexuals. Many of us choose not to label ourselves anything at all, and find the word 'bisexual' to be inadequate and too limiting. (...)"

— "The Bisexual Manifesto", Anything That Moves, No. 1, 1990.

Yo, this is a history lesson. So sit your ass down and watch this. And please comment your opinion down here afterwards.

https://youtu.be/bzG4UOaGy7M

And that's my unpopular opinion. Most people who said to have such a kink told they have a desire to have be taken advantage of and have control taken from them. Doesn't BDSM include those things to some degree? If you plan it out with a Dom with proper consent and a safe word, you could find whatever you're actually looking for. There's no need for actual r***.

And as always, if so happens to be someone who was actually r***d and has this fetish, that's a whole nother issue. Also I'm open to hear any arguments you may have, whether is it in favor or against it.

I want to downvote some questions and answers so bad but I can't D:

I'm gathering some data and it'd really help me out if you could listen these two songs and tell me your opinion about them. Even if you don't like it, it's fine! Just be honest in your answer.

https://youtu.be/LYAkY8Dh9CU
https://youtu.be/d5bbqKYu51w