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i feel like ive been seeing more and more arguments in the comments since last year. maybe its just me...
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https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/97503/ This list has some good ones! you should check it out
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idk if you've read semantic error but you should. if yes then reread it is too good TAT
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I dont care the genre/type of media i wanna know what is that one smut scene that still keeps you up at night. That you cant stop thinking about even after months/years lol.

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plz recommend me a bl with top tier lover boy behavior and i will sell you my soul

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I'm an older person, but when I was younger I didn't even know that not getting married or having kids was an option, it's just kind of what people do, so I went with the flow. I felt like in my relationships I didn't really feel what I was supposed to, but more like my satisfaction came from the validation of having someone think I was special and......
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its giving cupioromantic ++ things like "you just need wait for the one" or "you just need to experience it first" are all bullshit to regurgitate what someone else has said before: you dont actually need to experience something for yourself to know what you do and dont like. like, you dont need to actually date a man to know you dont wanna date a......
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Idk how to word this but I have trouble, expressing my love to someone or something, since I was younger, due to my past experience's, through my parents (I have never been in a relationship before, because of thus reason). They also have a really toxic relationship which made me doubt myself, because like what if I mistreat my partner? Without kno......
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omg I wrote a response but I guess it didn’t upload (⊙…⊙ ) it was an accumulation of things I (25F) wasn’t interested in sex during highschool, casual sex in college wasn’t my thing, I thought I was a prude/relationship girlie/lover. I got into a relationships (boy + girl) no sexual interest. I watched Bojack Horseman and loved Todd. W......
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I actually randomly came over Jaiden's Animation video about it on Youtube and it just clicked. I do not have such feelings for anyone most of the time. I did question it for a bit, but I realized that it does describe generally my experience. I also decided that I don't really care about labeling exactly what this is for me. If I ever feel comfo......
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I hate labels I might be asexual but I don’t really know and I'm constantly doubting myself. I love the concept of love and I would like a family of my own in the future but I can't really picture myself being in a relationship with someone. In my country there is a lot of pressure on women to get married like its their only life purpose.But I ......
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I wanna know how did you guys KNOW? Like really know? i know this is a common experience for many lgbtq+ people while on a self-discovery journey that they have a phase where they think they are aro/ace because theyre very confused about themselves. I just wanna know how and what made you completely sure you didnt want romantic/sexual attraction. ......

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i need me some childhood friends to lovers, or just unrequited love in general. (⊙…⊙ )

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i got "who r you" and im dying cause its very accurate
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any reincarnation/transmigration/rebirth bls that are completed. i feel like ive read most of them lmao so gimme anything at all

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I wanna see younger and pathetic tops T-T

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Going on 4 dates within a week of knowing each other. Is it normal or just the norm for lesbians?? Or is it not normal and im just stupid and missed my clue.

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Im craving a bl where they do it in a library

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Im feeling giddy! Can i get some blushing cute wholesome bls please (/ε\*)

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Try not to stress. Just see it as an opportunity to chat and get to know each other a bit better. You don’t have to do more than that on a first date. If you get along well enough offer to meet up again sometime. Maybe if you’re a bit awkward you could offer to do something like bowling next - that way you have something to focus on and talk ab......