
I read this a long long long long time ago I vaguely remember it
A boy loves his father of course the boy was adopted. The adopted boy wanted to become a teacher to follow his not real father’s steps. The son(adopted) loves his father so much that he wants to have sex. I think they did. But here is the plot twist (I think)
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The adopted boy was the one who killed his father’s biological son and the reason his father adopted him was to kill him, but he didnt, in the end the father killed himself infront of his adopted son

Pretty sure you're talking about this https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_perfect_relationship/

Where mc is selling the secrets of his wife to a person to pay off his debt, and wife cheating on his husband(mc)
I promise you the mc aint bad, The wife is an extreme bitch. She started acting so sus then thats why mc (husband) sold her information, information about how she was going to a group date despite being married. The wife as i said is a bitch who got mad at his husband because of his debt when she cheated on her husband and committed adultery. The mc(husband) love his wife so much but he was so broken hearted when he saw a file on his wife giving a blowjob to a stinky mushy ratty ass co worker of his wife. but despite that the mc still wanted to get his wife back.

I was coreecting a post that was posted by a fujoshi fetishizing gay people, and of course I commented and people responded back to mine, I already made one post of this last time just here to add, So here A STRAIGHT GIRL FUJOSHI commented this
“Look We Know That Its Just A "FANTASY", And By The Way If You Really Hate People Who are Not Gay And Fetishize about It then Just Leave THEM ALONE , BRO ITS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS IF THEY WANT TO FETISHIZE IT OR NOT”
I was like “:0” this fujoshis are getting out of hand, Thinking they have the right to validate anything they want
Like am i overreacting or not???? am i wrong or nah????? bitch I AM SURPRISED AT THE BRAVENESS
And also I replied to a person who also commented agreeing to the post about fetishizing gay people. Then when I replied they Laughed at my reply correcting them??!?!!? Most fujoshis are getting out of hand seriously
Its hard to find a nice and respecting fujoshi like how it is to find a repsectful nice and a caring man

To be completely honest, calling yourself a fujoshi/fudanshi is already a huge red flag. The only thing they consume is not BL, but yaoi (different from mature BL, yaoi fetishizes)??
You're not overreacting. Fetishizing is disgusting and a bad look on them, they just clowned themselves big time. They seem like a disgusting person.

as long as your not making it your sexual fetish or
obsessing over them, besides bl is a way for people to learn more about gay people. As long as you are treating gay people the same way you treat like any other person on this earth and not treating them as a sexual thing you get pleasure off, youre fine

In general gay men, porn, erotica
I found this answe from quora 8 months ago that is right on point
“If you get excited by gay erotica yet also feel gay men should have the same rights as straight people. If you read gay fiction while being kind and sensitive to gay men in real life. If you look at stories about gay men and actively try to get to know more about queerness, either through books or other means, then you’re doing just fine. Nobody gets to condemn your behavior.”

I argued with a person on facebook, a fujoshi shared a post that was clealry fetishizing gay people. And a bi “pick me” person commented this while I was saying in the comment on the post made that not gay people should not fetishize gay people
“Fantasies are, again, fun :) and normal. And just being unashamed about it and chatting with my friends about hot guys and hot gay sex ideas is fun, yes. I have even let two of my friends watch while I had fun with an other guy, all of us loved, its exciting. :D Writing fanfiction together is fun too. I even thought of hot lesbian sex ideas for two of my fujoshi friends who are a couple, because they asked me too, while they were raving about how cute I was with another guy.
However, on the other hand, you are going to find that everyone will absolutely hate and detest and exclude you if you start hating on the fangirls - aka our friends and fellow fans. That would, at least here, be the quickest way to not being IN the lgbt anime community anymore. XD”
They like straight up said that I need to accept fujoshis fetishizing gay people to be “accepted” into the “community”??????? They said that they will hate me them and their “fujoshi friends”??? for not accepting fujoshi or NOT GAY people fetishize gay people.
Am i over reacting or am i wrong??????

No it isn't, stop appropriating Japanese words. It literally just means woman who reads BL. Informative twitter thread of resources about it: https://twitter.com/_queerioes/status/1257759613652537344
Look, I self identify as a fujin/fudanshi. I'm aro/ace and trans. Fujoshi has nothing to do with being straight.
bl. Pls no love triangle. Not slowburn but not entirely fast development also. Like cherry blossoms that yaoi manhwa but no sex.
I just finished reading it’s so cute
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kabe_no_naka_no_tenshi/