oh, love, no!
i'm gay, and as a gay man, you do not need to be lgbt to be able to enjoy bl! enjoy them all you want, i'm glad people are liking gay media.
i think it depends on why you read bl. if your intention is to fetishize us, then that's where we draw the line. here's something i wrote regarding a similar topic :
http://www.mangago.me/home/......
