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This is such as good commentary on forgiveness and apologies, the acceptance of it or not. People hurt you and apologize and expect you to accept their apology and forgive them because it's supposedly good for you not to hold unto grudges. They don't care that them hounding you for forgiveness is boxing you in and not giving you the space and time to properly heal. If I have to keep seeing the person who wronged me because they've refused to accept me saying "no, I don't want to see your face. Go away" I would absolutely not even entertain the the thought of forgiveness. You're literally continuing to hurt me. You don't care about my feelings or wishes, you just want to feel good about yourself. You want to be able to say "well I said sorry" and dump the responsibility on the person you hurt.Andy absolutely does not care about Minjae's feelings. He's a selfish and pathetic character.