No guy let alone one who you are dating should EVER talk to you this way. I don't know your life so I'm not judging you but girrrl it would not be me. That man would be out of my life so fast he'd break the sound barrier on his way out the door. Go to the party enjoy your life. reply
I mean a lot of this just depends on personal taste. But mainly never ever brush or comb your hair when it is dry. Invest in a good curl creme/gel and put it in your hair when it is wet and then style it how you want and let air dry or use a diffuser. Good luck. reply