I know I joke around about me wanting Apollo and how he turns me on (because he does). But I’m so sad for him too because i kinda know what he’s going through, I was never married but I did have a partner and they also slept with someone else. We were in a monogamous relationship so I did not understand why they were so nonchalant about it, their attitude hurt me more. Sex with another person IS cheating! Even though the human being is not a monogamous animal by nature, our social and cultural structures have shaped us that way. Of course there are exceptions like couples in a polyamorous relationship, but when you are under the agreement of a monogamous relationship I expect exactly that. It hurts deeply when your partner betrays you like that. It hurt me so bad that I was not ok even after a year of ending the damn relationship. To this day I still have so much trouble connecting to another person romantically because I fear being betrayed like that again.
I don’t blame Hyesung for not forgiving his mother.
I get that you had to leave your abusive husband, I get that, and good for you for finally putting an end to all the abuse. My gripe is that you left your child behind with the abusive bastard. Even if the women are not in the right mental state to take care of a child, they could have left them with other family or use the safe haven laws and explain the situation at home. Don’t you think that now that the abusive bastard doesn’t have you to abuse he’s not gonna turn to your kid? You are leaving your kid behind to live the nightmare that you are escaping. And then these women are all like I left, got all better, started a family but I still feel bad about leaving you so here I am, and they expect to be forgiven. BITCH NO. Again, good for you for leaving, getting better and starting a family, I’m just mad that you come back after all these godamn years because you feel guilty for leaving your kid behind. Just don’t come back, you coming back is also a form of trauma to the kid that you left behind.
That was a lot, I apologize, but I needed to vent. And no my mother did not abandon me, so it’s not from experience, just a personal thought.









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