
This is kind of a strange request but my sister is curious about BDSM when I was describing one of the manhwa that I have read. So she wants a recommendation herself an I'm at a loss. Can you suggest a BDSM manhwa (manga is also okay) that won't freak her out lol. Thanks!

First ones that came to my mind.
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/seifuku_no_jo_ou_sama/ - manga, it's more SM theme, but it's with young characters, really mild and without smut. There is quite a lot od second hand embarassment tho XD
- https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_sensual_m/ - manhwa with adults trying BDSM, also mild and without smut
Maybe try to read before you show it to her, because I don't want to be cause of her trauma XD

Any recs for bl manhwa with a solid realistic plot. Not just dudes screwing each other.

Neko x Neko
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/neko_x_neko/ (completed)
There is some smut, but it really just focuses on their growing relationship and their plans for the future.
If you are in for drama, and a little toxic couples i would also recommend Lost in the cloud
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/cloud_1/ (Ongoing)
Another cute one, but rather long
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/men_s_wear_store/
A cross dresser x a guy who thought he was straight. ( ̄∇ ̄") its also not the usual ‘I thought he was a girl’ misunderstanding! This one isnt as realistic but its still super fluffy.

Are there mangas/mamhwas with very subtle bl or normal mangas with unexpected bl couples, bl side couples in hetero mangas etc.
There are mangas/manhwas with either only straight or only bl. What I want is a mix of both and if the bl couple is regarded as in real life that would be better.
If you know any please share.

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/sankaku_mado_no_sotogawa_wa_yoru/ this is tagged as shounen-ai but it's more of the tension is there rather than it being an explicit bl. it's more story-driven.

Is there perhaps a manhwa where the male lead full of regrets reincarnated (instead of the female lead) and this time has the chance to make up for those mistakes?

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_emperor_reverses_time/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_empress_of_ashes/
Been a while since I read this last one, but I believe they both reincarnated but it’s still fl perspective so prob not exactly what you’re looking for
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/my_ex_husband_became_the_male_lead/

Is there perhaps a manhwa where the male lead full of regrets reincarnated (instead of the female lead) and this time has the chance to make up for those mistakes?
Rather than an op powerhouse kind of story I'm searching for a rather emotional one. Sad and regretful and his pain is almost palpable.

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/return_of_the_flowery_mountain_sect/
not sure if youve read this yet

Can you please tell me the saddest manhwa that you've read?

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/stigma_marloong/
one of my all time favs but u might wana search up the tws beofre u read it

Only this comes to my mind https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/july_found_by_chance/

makes me cry every time
The Paper Plane Which Is Under The Rainbow - https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_paper_plane_which_is_under_the_rainbow/

Are there any manga or manhwa with a straight couple and side gay couple?

As long as I can remember, this two
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/faded_first_love/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/bring_the_love/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/unstoppable_siblings/ this have a yuri side couple
It's always the female lead who gets mistreated by the male lead and then gets reincarnated.
Are there any manhwa or even manhua or manga where the male lead is mistreated by the female lead or any female in general. It doesn't matter whether he reincarnates or any misunderstandings get resolved or not. Can I have a recommendation where the male lead is mistreated and not the other way round?
Thanks in advance!
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_villain_s_savior/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/bitten_by_the_dog_i_abandoned/ Perfect