In the dream, Do you think the person woowon wanted to go over to that his dad refused to let him go to was Seo an? Like his dad represents this nightmare that refuses to let him find peace which is represented by Seo an? Because it was obviously a man in a dress shirt he wanted to go too.
Or if I really feel like reaching, do you think this symbolizes that if woowon doesn't escape(heal) from this trauma(represented by his dad) that he won't get to his peace, his happiness, his future (represented by the man in the dress shirt/possibly Seo An). And his dad grabbing him represents how he feels like he can't escape despite his desperate wish too. How he is shown as a child because his inner kid is being held hostage by the trauma left by his father.
╮(￣▽￣)╭ oh the possibilities.
i think both are so right (,_,) painful moments await us for sure…
Most definitely I hope Seo An with his own experience with trauma and going to therapy gives him the insight to encourage Woowon. He is being very loving and gentle, and already sees that Woowon isn't recovered like he claims he is. Now all Seo An needs to do is put together that it's less physical healing needed and more mental.
Of course all of that only matters if Woowon takes Seo An to heart and listens, because therapy only works if the person wants and is willing to recieve help. And with Woowon's history he shies away from help.
Yall ever get really annoyed about the shitty communication and toxic behavior but remember that these are men. Given some men are good at talking and being open and healthy but percentage wise i think it's a given that that is only a handful of men who were taught well whole the majority were hardly given the opportunity to learn EQ. I think a really good BL would be watching the developement of proper EQ in mc or ml. tho maybe that's why so many ppl like Lowtide in Twilights ML developement. Lol just a ramble bc I always think abt this when comparing theme to real relationships.
I told yall our lil runt would come through. He might not be some big ceo but he will protect his man how he can.
Just a theory
Gonna be wild when the seme realizes that it isn't just the chase he is after. Bro is longing for Nanjo's sweet and gentle side. He saw how soft nanjo was with the twink and hasn't realized he is envious. He is having a hard time realizing his problem with his fwb is that he thinks the twink doesn't deserve Nan and that he want his love and affection.
(I only remember Nanjo's name rip)
Based on the Raws cover picture Seme seems like end game. Which just means Nanjo is probably gonna reach a breaking point being wrapped up with these two snakes.
I was sick during its release so glad I got better enough to do this. As per usual ch 14 update!
https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/14446525/
thank you <3
You are doing God's work, ty so much!!!
I can 100% still dislike him bc he knew what he was before he started dating her. And as an Aro or ace, you disclose that to your partner always bc romance and sex can and will always affect a relationship especially for ppl who aren't aro or ace. It's a hard talk but if you expect them to be your partner
Judging by the way the Ex's friend talks about how Yoomin will come running back in Hyeondu POV chapters i have a feeling that's who was on the phone.
However, a massive betrayal would be the sister. Not likely but it would Sting and also be a good way to have her want to remove all strings attached to her Ex.
In BDSM emotions and having the correct mind set are very important in the play.
I'm willing to have some leniency with my annoyance for both our Dom and sub if we consider these things.
This is MC first bdsm relationship, and he has also technically never been in a real relationship. That type of communication is usually developed with experience.
This is a complicated issue with the simple solution of communication. However some ppls biggest mistake when they see a complicated/difficult issue is they expect a complicated answer.
MC needs to nut up and ask but he isnt obligated to share his feeling especially in a contracted relationship which this essentially is(one as dom/sub and the agreement didnt include a romantic relationship). It is not unreasonable for him to separate himself from the contracted relationship when something that disrupts that contract/agreement emerges, but he needs to communicate that, explain their agreement no longer satisfies him and that is why he is leaving. But bro is in his early 20's so he is still developing that EQ, there are some 20 year olds who already have that EQ but he is obviously not one of them lol.
ML as the dom who is teaching/older/more power needed to sooner rather then later teach that the emotional aspect is just as important. MC's only experience is the ML and watching videos, as the more experience of the two the fault lies on the Dom with that, however, it seems like this is the first time he is teacher/leading a Sub so it's understandable he wouldn't be experienced in the teaching aspect. ppl often forget that just because you're well educated in a subject doesn't mean you qualify to teach.
They're both learning so these mistakes are expected and inevitable. It likely also doesn't help that the communication style commonly used in many cultures is subtly and not direct confrontation. Personally I can't imagine that communication style but I'm sure there are plenty of ppl who couldn't imagine being direct the way I am either.
I guess we will just get to wait and see.