dude i gotta say, threatening you like that is a HUGE red flag. she should NOT be doing something like that when you are obviously not comfortable with it. please tell her so, because you can't just let this fly, because she'll continue doing this. it's basically blackmail. literally forcing you out of your comfort zone is not going to make you mor...... reply
you’re fully allowed to read and enjoy BL, as a straight girl, but saying you don’t fetishize gay couples is straight up wrong. the whole concept of “yaoi” is fetishization. you may not like it because it sounds like a bad thing, and it really is a bad thing, but you’re still technically allowed to enjoy BL. reply
this is your way of coming out as homophobic, right? what percentage of gay relationships compared to straight relationships do you think we see in media? now, what percent of the population is gay? netflix is doing the right thing, the reason you don’t like it is because you’re uncomfortable with homosexuality, aka you’re homophobic.
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i started reading yaoi at around that age too, and honestly? yes, you are too young. a lot of yaoi features abusive and/or pedophilia-esque relationships, and at your age, it’s very possible that reading tons of stories like that can effect the way you view relationships, and not in a good way. 1 reply
definitely a tsundere uke! i love affection, but at the same time I find it difficult to deal with affection, and tend to close myself off and push people away at the start. 1 reply