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i don´t really know about those things but i will support you even if i don´t know you òwó9 but if your family truly loves you i think they wouldn´t mind if you are homosexual and just a reminder that being homosexual is nothing bad or to be ashamed of so if someone doesn´t accept it it´s their problem not yours. Fighting!nwn

I know for some people writing a letter with all ur thoughts down is easier for them !! Goodluck stay safe ^^

I’m definitely not an expert but you should call a friend or trusted individual beforehand and tell them that you are about to come out or at least imply that you will be in a stressful situation. Make sure that they know when this will happen just incase anything becomes dangerous or you suddenly need a place to go. Other than that, just be honest and tell them both ur struggles and resolve, make sure that there is no room for them to deny or question whether or not you are sure ab your sexuality. Be firm with it and tell them that you love them but that this is and will always be apart of you. Anyways, idk if this helped but good luck and I’ll be wishing the best for you all the way over here!

If they are very homophobic then you might consider just not coming out.

What's the point of them knowing what kind of people you want to fuck with?

And it's not the end of the world if they dont meet your partner if you ever get in a serious relationship.

It's all up to you but not telling them might not be bad depending how you feel about it

im facing a similar issue and what ive planned is to study my ass off and move to somewhere else. basically i'll just shower them with excuses afterwards but it's better than coming out to a no-nonsense family who wouldnt even hear me out.

Ima be straight up man.
If they are understanding - u good
If they aren't - ur f*cked bro
Still tho give them time to take it in. Take deep breaths and pray but since u mentioned they homophobic then it will definitely take a lot longer for them to take it in. Give them time and hopefully soon yall will be chill again. I believe in u man (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

I don't plan on coming out pansexual to my parents

Wait until your financially independent from your parents and out of the house to tell them cuz they might react badly and u definitely wouldn’t want them to have control over your life still

Yep this is the more logical, realistic and less risky path. Flamy my friend I suggest you take this one. When you said homophobic I already was against sudden coming outs. If your family was not propride but they don't hate or are in status quo and you guys super close I would say you could risk it but in your situation I would not, call me coward but I don't gamble that big..
. EVER

I always say prepare for the worst, study or work your ass off and be independent Then you free to gamble on your family reaction, if they accept it super good but If they don't you will suffer a lot less if you are in control of you life, Rejection Gonna hurt just the same only you can say "bye this is where our paths split" and you won't be subjected to try and change to keep your life or stay in a house where you feel uncomfortable, are insulted and face disgust.

Lastly Cheer up buddy even if you end up coming out differently I wish you the best, Sending lots of hugs and love ヾ(☆▽☆) Sorry for the long answer