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So if anyone was using this manhwa as a reference for baby care...not that you should but you know...I like to gather information like this while reading manhwas ╮(￣▽￣)╭

The guide-

1) No fever (temp>100°F) in a baby less than 1 yr is good so make sure to measure it every time you feel that the baby is warm/hot.

2) should you get a temp of 100+ F then try to cool down the baby first remove extra clothing (make sure the room temp is maintained between 25-27C) and if your babies cord had fallen off then you can wipe your baby with a wet cloth (but dry enough to not leave water on the baby) repeat temp after 1/2 hr..if fever persist then time for meds/hospital

3) teething doesn't bring on a temp which is consistently high..so keep rechecking temp...most likely the cause is not teething( in this case the inflammation of the gums caused the baby to have fever) and should visit hospital regardless

4) give the baby good teething material, carrots cucumbers or radish apple these are few things that help relieve the teething aches by providing texture to chew on...however always keep your eyes peeled for choking. Pacifiers help in this regards and iced pacifiers are best....don't use any medication for this...not good for baby ( babies can bleed from gums should they be roughed up like it did her so be careful of what to use as teethers)

5) child will be irritable during the entire teething process and would love to put whatever they can in their mouth to relieve it..hence try to wash all the toys that baby uses, and keep your floors clean and make sure that whoever touches the baby or toys has properly washed their hands

Hope this helpsヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~

I wonder why the uske us worried about paying the rent when he is already giving the down payment....with his ass.... (=・ω・=)

I don't want to be that person.....but why those yaoi hands have to make an appearance....i thought they were a thing of last ╥﹏╥

Soooo I should have realised that this author wouldn't give a good ending....like not a complete fluffy fluffy ending....

I am just crying seeing how taker is going to take time to reappear...if he does come back....I was expecting a sweet fluffy story after they had come this far....but noooo this author wouldn't

And it hurts sooo bad but it is soooo good ╥﹏╥
What to do

Soooo here is the thing both yi yi and feng decided to get IVF procedures done. For yiyi he wanted a baby coz he had no hopes for himself and wanted to give his parents a grandchild. Around the same time feng feng also wanted a baby so that he can have an heir who was safe from his scheming family....
The thing is the fengs had been tracking feng yao...so they knew that he had given his sperm for the process...and while all this was happening feng yao told the docs that he needed to switch his sperms with someone else so as to make sure that his sperm is safe from his family's manipulation.

The person doc chose was yi yi...so at the end of the day the sperm used was feng's instead of yi, making rourou fengs child biologically. Feng kept an eye out on both and then abducted them later....rest we know.

Now feng hadn't been a complete dick so he had kept yiyi's sperm safe under his name ...but that mean aunt who couldn't have children got hold of it....now the thing is fengs have special powers passed from gen to gen...it skipped feng yao and his father but the gene was there...the gene shows up as a birth mark. All three fengs(granddad,fengfeng,rourou) have this mark...but only rourou has the power....

The succession to the company depends on this mark/power...also why feng wanted rourou to a secret...coz dirty family politics. Aunt has a clue about this hence wanted feng yaos sperm(assumption)...so inherently the baby now born(to the feng aunt who didn't have a baby) is yi yi's....coz sperms were exchanged.

Now to the actual procedure that is done in IVF.
The patient/donor is asked to give his sperm in a bottle. This bottle is stored in a safe place... usually by cryogenic methods. When a surrogate mother who is willing to sign the contract is found these sperms are inseminated (pushed in the cervical opening via syringe) when the woman is most fertile(sometimes this is induced) it is also checked weither the surrogate is actually fertile before the procedure and also before insemination (release of the ova/egg has been done). With this done all that is left is to wait. She gets pregnant, the baby is handed over to the parent(s)

Here fengfeng's sperm and yiyi's sperms are not mixed..they are in seperate container and both the sperms were used on seperate women....the reason why rourou has golden hair is due to the foreign lineage of the surrogate mother used. Yiyi's child had blue...guess he family genes are dominant(⌒▽⌒)

Also while on this topic...IVF is extremely extensive and expensive and taxing...so if possible don't opt for it...if it's something as simple as oligospermia or just normal erectile disfunction...that still alright ....but otherwise it takes a lot of emotion mental and physical strength which is (in my opinion) not required. Success rate of these procedures is not that great either...please adopt children....far safer less taxing and definitely more rewarding.

This story shows how much of a "made up" society we live in....
the comments are just what she would hear if she ever went to anyone who is older than her for help.... your child your problem

However, parents should support their children...no matter how old they are...

Does anyone remember when that daiki kid was looking after his younger brother his mom said that I will put down my pride and ask for my parents help...it's not even a thought as a single mother of two kids to be asking for help....when parents should have offered before hand?

Similarly with naruse...that dude just saw his parents do stuff...didn't really think and was like I need to provide..but this poor man just forgot that he also has responsibility to take care of that child as well even if it just ment to talk to his wife...that it took 4 people to take care of his...his parents and grandparents together....but the society was not expecting him to do this right? So he never thought...it was only after they divorced did he realise

The mothers in the daycare also are like that they don't want naruse...a man to take care of a child...the simplest reason for it? Why would they remain special when a man can do that as well? It's sooo layered and in hiding that noone really realises that but that is the notion people feel...

A society is not progressive coz women wear small clothes or are fully covered...nor it is progressive when they are 'allowed' to study or choose a carrier option... Or whether they have babies or have no babies..it becomes progressive when these parameters don't matter at all....when people done blink or stare at a man being a house husband and a woman being a ceo....

What does it mean to be child of God? Like I understand nameless part...like if you poor you don't have a family name or a name in general....but I don't get the child of God thing...is it a bad thing or a good thing...
If dongbaek is child of God shouldnt they want to keep her coz she would bring them good luck or something....