I accidentally came out to my mom today, because I thought she would be okay about it. She wasn't. She's telling me that I'm lying about being bi, told me it's 'yucky' that I think that way and when I called her ridiculous for blatantly saying this shit to me she threatened to out me to my dad (he's homophobic). What the fuck do I do I kinda want to just apologize and take it all back but I can't. She said they wouldn't support me w college and stuff if I 'stayed this way' or 'chose to be like this'. I literally want to drop dead so I don't have to hear any more out of them.
i think you should take some time to talk to her quietly and if she still isnt okay with that then find a relative who is. if there isnt anyone like that and you feel your future and safety are on the line then, im sorry to say this but go back in the closet; especially if your safety is on the line.
im rly sorry to hear that.
i dont think you should apologize as u did nothing wrong here. i dont have any experience going through this but i think if they really wanted you to be happy, they would come around eventually, whether thats in days, weeks or years i dont know. i obviously dont know your parents personally so i don’t know why they think theres something “wrong” with you but i rly want you to know that there isnt anything wrong with you and you deserve happiness no matter your sexuality.
try to work around. Maybe talk to a relative or a close friend of your mom who you're close to and who you KNOW is understanding, they could help talk to your mom. If you can't maybe let her calm down, give her some time, and then try to *calmly* approach her again. In a better world, you wouldn't have to hide who you are and apologize for being the victim, but in reality as someone else said, you have to prioritize your safety and future. I hope you're ok, always make sure to talk to your friends about this stuff too
First of all, I'm sorry u have to go through this... if I were you I will probably try to make peace with my parent while saving up to prepare myself to live on my own. If your safety is on the line then move to other relatives or friends and contact authorities. My last advice is to record or video tape the conversation or interaction with your parents, it will be handy later if they become abusive.Hope u stay safe
I'm sorry this happened to you, most of older generation can accept it easily coz theythink their son(if youre a guy) would carry the family name and they want to have grandchildren with you, they might be concerned with you too, because let's face it being in lgbt isnt rainbows and butterflies, if you can't talk it out with your mom for the 2nd time, then work and study hard so that you can provide yourself, so you wont depend on them and be scared of your future, finish college first and get a job (/TДT)/ don't force it on them to accept you immediately, it takes time just be patient, always remember that your parents love you no matter what, they're gonna accept you, maybe not now but sooner I guess, sorry long message
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