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Okay. So. I am recommending this with REALLY specific conditions - our sub is...fucked up. Just, deeply wounded.
And if you cannot accept that he has agency and has decided, as an adult, to do everything he's involved in because he's got needs that makes him want emotionally and physically extreme things? Don't read this.
That said? Even the fucked stuff is all consensual D/s scenarios. Unhealthy. But he chose it. He could have said no. He never did.
Then it gets sweet.