Hi people! Info time! welcome to the wild and wonderful world of Risk Aware Consensual Kink.
When two people agree(consent) to do something that they both know is dangerous and they are both adults and they both are getting something out of it, and they are all informed of the risks they are taking? That my friends, is when you move out of Safe, Sane and Consensual Kink(SSC) and into Risk Aware Consensual Kink(RACK). If you get hurt when you engage in RACK? WELP! That's unfortunate! You knew what you were doing when you got involved! But that isn't abuse! Abuse is when one person in a position of power harms someone in a position of less power without their consent! The CONSENT aspect of RACK is what prevents this from being abusive so long as all the parties involve keep agreeing to the play. Is it safe? Sometimes it is, sometimes it isn't, but everyone knows what they're getting into! Is it sane? Ehhhh, depends. Is it consensual? YES! Does that mean that everyone is making good choices? LOL NO! People are out there making stupid sex decisions all the time! Welcome to adulthood get a helmet.
But the fact that everyone has INFORMED CONSENT keeps it from falling into the cycle of abuse. If you are CONFUSED about what makes a relationship abusive? I encourage you to check out the Power and Control Wheel of Abusive Relationships.
https://www.thehotline.org/identify-abuse/power-and-control/
Stay safe out there!
Thank you! Everyones making the dom to be a complete monster and I dont like it! (╬￣皿￣)凸
This is true, however most people here are angry at the dom for the lack of communication. There's a rlly complicated situation when we involved an unexperienced partner, mainly bc you are the one (parcially) responsible to inform them what everything means. In this case the dom isn't doing that at all, he said he wanted to involved violence, yet he never specified, he also doesn't compromise in what type of kinks could work for both of them.
And the most important thing, even if they both agree to it, the Dom usually needs to keep a close eye on the sub in case things happen and they are unable to communicate the safeword so its not so much of "well its unfortunate that u got hurt"
I agree that with the play he did w the random sub is not abuse, thats 100% RACK, but the relationship with the MC is just unsafe and dangerous
This is why I love the comments section.
I am begging yall to stop with this "don't post over" bullshit. Notyou posts a different kind of update than ss.fujoshi.
ss.fujoshi editorialize EVERYTHING. They fill it with memes. They're loud. They're going for lolzy. It is very cute but it can also be distracting AF.
Notyou posts the chapter without as fast as possible without extra frills but what might be considered lower quality.
BOTH ARE FINE TAKES. But! They do different things. Some people want the memes and commentary. Some people people want that next chapter as fast as possible!
If two people bring cakes to a party, don't get angry because there's another cake competing with the first cake. Look at the two different cakes and go HOLY SHIT TWO CAKES!
It's not that important, yall, this is a thing people are doing for free on the internet. Be kind for a minute will you?
But do we want that? No.
We were always fine with Shoira. This person is just creating useless drama. Everything was so fun and peaceful here and than this happens. Annoying af
what's the point of uploading chapters of a manhwa that ALREADY has a team to do it???? what exactly is ur point?
yeah you've lost your point since u have to prove it with literally an off topic issue. u want fast updates? then go buy the chapters yourself. authors need to make profits too. what's so hard to understand about that? lol u think u're smart enough?
if you want fast chapters just go buy them. It's pretty easy to get them in tappas. So much more easier than in lezhin.
Also not to be rude but your logic was really dumb. Please don't act smart if you aren't smart(￣∇￣")
I'm just reading this argument :D
Notyou is not even the translator though, they're just stealing Scanbeans translations. There's literally no reason for it, we already have good, consistent translators/uploaders on this site so if you wanna read Scanbeans version instead you should go do so on whatever site the actual translators post it to.
They also got shoiras versions of the chapters deleted so it's not just a matter of having double uploads either.
I think they are trying to mock and disrespect shoira...what an unnecessary drama this idiot is creating ugh...let's report this person's scc
I think the bigger issue is that the original up-loaders are also still working on it so this person posting a day or 2 before is making their work go to vain..
Yes it’s ok to bring 2 cakes to the party BUT person “A” had already signed up to bring it yet person “B” brought it before them and since everyone just ate that person “B’s” cake no one wants the cake of the person “A” who actually signed up to bring it.. so it’s just wasting that person “A” work and time..
If people are trying to bully/threaten the 2nd person for posting then I personally don’t agree with that.. I think the original uploaders can just ask them not to do it again and it shouldn’t be a problem.. ╮(￣▽￣)╭
You just made yourself sound stupid with your arguments. People above me have already refuted and answered your questions. Yeah, I get what you're trying to say but there's a thing called respecting other teams. Why would you upload over a series that already has an uploader/scanlator/translator or whatever? If you so badly want to do that, have the modesty to ask first if the og team is dropping a title, then only you can take over. Yeah, this is a pirate site and we're all pirates so anyone can upload what they want, blah, blah, blah. If that's how you and this snipping uploader think, then you are the thieves among the us thieves. That's the only analogy to compare this mentallity is.
I'm just reading this argument :D
Love that uploader and the additional stuff they are posting.
Maybe this topic was created 'cause it disturbed the masturbating reader???
ss.fujoshi is actively updating this so whats your point?
I would've understand if the previous uploader stop updating this but no. They just have to upload over an uploader/translator and its not even their own work, the audacity.
Cant you see notyou is just stealing works from another scan group?
Or are you Notyou just posing as someone else?
what are you even saying???
Just smoke some weed and enjoy! it probably make sense stone
Probably just a troll trippin' (not sure trolling from whichside, though). Ignore. Now back to the argument.
Probably just a troll trippin' (not sure trolling from whichside, though). Ignore. Now back to the argument.
plz continue, if you have no other satisfaction in your live :D
Well, the problem is Notyou stole Scan Beans' translations and posted here without the group's permission. Scan Beans never posted here (on this site) from the beginning and don't want their works posted here too. Besides, ssfujoshi has taken over this manhwa on mangago and they're very active and hasn't even announce that they're dropping this. It's very disrespectful to just snipe the update like that ☹
lmao i already did. Btw do you remember after how many days shoira uploads their chapter??
they keep making duplicate chapters, stfu. what’s the point of uploading if there’s ALREADY a dedicated team that’s been uploading the manga since the very beginning?!?
Ooh, I don't as I don't pay attention to the schedule of uploads as long as they continue to post chapters, I don't care waiting a couple of days.
ARE YOU KIDDING ME? IT TAKES THEN TEN YEARS TO GET THEIR SHIT TOGETHER??!?!?! AND WE DONT EVEN GET TO SEE IT HAPPEN?!?!?! WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK!??!
Well-written, creative framing device, stunning artwork, really interesting in the sense that I genuinely cannot see how the fuck they're gonna pull a believable happy ending out of this and the trauma responses that Kei has - to his abusers and to Yukata as his first somewhat-stable relationship - are probably the most realistic of anything I've seen in BL/Yaoi manga ever both with the fact that unfortunately sometimes abused people become abusers themselves and that people who get conditional love are often conditioned to believe that all love is in turn conditional until shown otherwise while also showing that doesn't mean have to stay that way through the visual metaphors of the dolls and the game. Just...fantastic. I can't afford to spend a much money on manga and I use sites like this to sorta gage where I'm going to invest my cash but if there was an English translation of Gift I would buy it TODAY.
The age of consent is 20 in S. Korea which is what the confusion may be? But it's 16 in Japan. This is a recent development after over a century set at 13, which was icky as fuck. Decent chance this was written before the change too. While lots of prefectures had consent set much higher - 15-18 - the nation age is now 16.
There was literal news articles about it it being changed last year. Have one!
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-65887198
But yeah, 20 is for South Korea. And despite everything? Japan and South Korea are not the same country and dont have the same laws.
A 19 year old in Japan is out of high school, above the age of consent, and can make his own decisions about who he fucks. And sex work is legal.
Utusgi can be a scumbag for being a manipulator who preyed on a vulnerable person who was younger than him and didn't know better and then who controlled said partner socially, sexually and financially without it being pedophilia, actually. Perhaps that is what the author is trying to warn the reader of.
And perhaps we can consider that our experience is not universal and that other cultures are different from ours?
i think 19 is pretty grown lmao a 19 yo can for sure have the right mind to know who he wanna fuck. 19 yos aren't children