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Hi people! Info time! welcome to the wild and wonderful world of Risk Aware Consensual Kink.
When two people agree(consent) to do something that they both know is dangerous and they are both adults and they both are getting something out of it, and they are all informed of the risks they are taking? That my friends, is when you move out of Safe, Sane and Consensual Kink(SSC) and into Risk Aware Consensual Kink(RACK). If you get hurt when you engage in RACK? WELP! That's unfortunate! You knew what you were doing when you got involved! But that isn't abuse! Abuse is when one person in a position of power harms someone in a position of less power without their consent! The CONSENT aspect of RACK is what prevents this from being abusive so long as all the parties involve keep agreeing to the play. Is it safe? Sometimes it is, sometimes it isn't, but everyone knows what they're getting into! Is it sane? Ehhhh, depends. Is it consensual? YES! Does that mean that everyone is making good choices? LOL NO! People are out there making stupid sex decisions all the time! Welcome to adulthood get a helmet.
But the fact that everyone has INFORMED CONSENT keeps it from falling into the cycle of abuse. If you are CONFUSED about what makes a relationship abusive? I encourage you to check out the Power and Control Wheel of Abusive Relationships.
https://www.thehotline.org/identify-abuse/power-and-control/
Stay safe out there!
Thank you! Everyones making the dom to be a complete monster and I dont like it! (╬￣皿￣)凸
This is true, however most people here are angry at the dom for the lack of communication. There's a rlly complicated situation when we involved an unexperienced partner, mainly bc you are the one (parcially) responsible to inform them what everything means. In this case the dom isn't doing that at all, he said he wanted to involved violence, yet he never specified, he also doesn't compromise in what type of kinks could work for both of them.
And the most important thing, even if they both agree to it, the Dom usually needs to keep a close eye on the sub in case things happen and they are unable to communicate the safeword so its not so much of "well its unfortunate that u got hurt"
I agree that with the play he did w the random sub is not abuse, thats 100% RACK, but the relationship with the MC is just unsafe and dangerous
This is why I love the comments section.
yall, they criminialized manga piracy in Japan. @Mangago staff, what's gonna happen to yall?
Probably continue to prioritize korean/chinese webtoons as they seem to have been doing for awhile now. I don't think there's a single actual manga in the "popular manga" scroll bar right now.
I'm not sure many of us would even notice if they stopped hosting real japanese manga at this point.
And this was all borderline or outright illegal already, depending on where you live.
i guess the law is only in japan since it's the actual source? if you're talking about manga
if for exemple they stop the japanese free sites then translators won't be able to find new chapters or manga
The age of consent is 20 in S. Korea which is what the confusion may be? But it's 16 in Japan. This is a recent development after over a century set at 13, which was icky as fuck. Decent chance this was written before the change too. While lots of prefectures had consent set much higher - 15-18 - the nation age is now 16.
There was literal news articles about it it being changed last year. Have one!
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-65887198
But yeah, 20 is for South Korea. And despite everything? Japan and South Korea are not the same country and dont have the same laws.
A 19 year old in Japan is out of high school, above the age of consent, and can make his own decisions about who he fucks. And sex work is legal.
Utusgi can be a scumbag for being a manipulator who preyed on a vulnerable person who was younger than him and didn't know better and then who controlled said partner socially, sexually and financially without it being pedophilia, actually. Perhaps that is what the author is trying to warn the reader of.
And perhaps we can consider that our experience is not universal and that other cultures are different from ours?
i think 19 is pretty grown lmao a 19 yo can for sure have the right mind to know who he wanna fuck. 19 yos aren't children