Moonriver's Topics (153)

For the last part it was probably bc of the shock

its honestly not that bad.. i mean everyone can write something like that, im a lesbian and i know that people like that exist regardless of gender

I agree In general people just suck I’ve seen this happen before

Obviously women can be like that, but its not a one particular case, there's a pattern of portraying woman as annoying, hysterical and mean beings. If it was just one case I would totally agree that was just a random character development, but when you see a lotttt of mangas doing that its obviously showing something else, they're building a stereotype around woman, and for me thats internalized mysogyny. Cause men in real life are wayyyyyyyy more annoying, hysterical and mean than woman. I dont know about u, but in my whole life I've never seen one single woman being mad with a men that rejected her, while men....

I don't know where you live but in my country women can be very very terrible . My friend was harassed by a bunch of girls because he rejected one of their friend, another friend of mine was in love with a guy and the female friends of this guy harassed her because they said she wasn't right for him and if she wanted to talk with him she firstly had to sort of get through them. And this are only situations that i have experienced first hand but I have seen and heard worst things about others. So when i read this same pattern in other Manga, even straight manga, I think that it's a matter of culture if they portraits this type of thing, i don't think it's because they want to be mean to the women, sadly this tipe of persons can exist everywhere, so what you see as internalized misogyny a See it as a normal "bitches appeared". BTW it's true that even men can be very hysterical but you're very lucky if you didn't see a woman that isn't mad after being rejected, the last I heard, burned the car of his crush(￣∇￣")

I doesn't even know what to say........ There's clearly a cultural shock here hahaha cause I AM in shock. What????? Like... what????? Im very curious from where u are from, but I think its not actually important to the topic and its kinda of personal.
But like, here, of course it can be one or another that fits in you description, exceptionally in prison and gang areas. But the real thing its news after news of men killing their partner, or being aggressive cause of rejection. Me myself almost got beaten by two huge men after rejecting them at a party, was save by the people that controlled them. My friend defended her cousin that was beeing harrassed by a guy at a bar and he pointedhis gun at them. And I know a few men that spread rumors about girls after rejection. I have actually fear of rejecting men.

This happen in my country too, and it isn't strictly limited to men, even women are sometimes very violent after being rejected. I lived in a big city before with it's pros and cons and it wasn't strictly limited to gang area. I live in a small town now and is very quiet but I often hear of Women who stalk their rival in love, who hurt other women because of a man and sometimes they kill too, who bully other women harass them and spread rumors about them online and outside and so go on . Obviously even men do all of this things. Sadly the law aren't very strict with this crime, except for murder case, so either women or men can be very horrible when rejected or dumped. My cousins who live in another big city was harassed and stalked by her ex and after reporting him to the police several times she only gained a restraining order, she had to transferred in another apartment changed her number and her email address and even her work place. Then after 2 years of peace the new girlfriend of his ex started to stalk, harass, and blackmail her. She had to change town. What I'm trying to say is that if a person grew up in an environment where the only thing they teach you is ignorance and hatred or live in a country which allows this things to happen without a very punishment they will always think that their are allowed to do what they want regardless of whether you are a man or a woman. That's why i think that in Japan this thing may happen and probably are only women who do this thing.