So, I'm asking this here because I don't know where else to ask. I can't even imagine how I can feel so attracted to someone that i get turned on? Like, i can definitely feel attracted to bodies, but i can't imagine how i could get so turned on by a body, male OR female, that i want to have sex. I've fallen in love before, but the last time was years ago when I was 10 and I've never been in a relationship before. And If I read about or watch sex, it's the sex itself that turns me on, and not the bodies if that makes sense?? Don't get me wrong, I think about and WANT to have sex and i'm not unable to get turned on. But it's simply the idea that a body can ge me wet that's so foregin to me. Is this something I will understand when i fall in love again, now as someone older than ten year old me? Or is this something similar to being demi or asexual? I'm not really worried, but I would be thankful If I could understand myself a bit better. If anyone know what this is or feels the same thing, please respond^^ This confused gurl appreciate all answers ヾ(@^▽^@)ノ
You're better off looking at resources online that dedicate to the topic (say AVEN). But you're kind of looking in the right direction as regards to asexuality. You can't really know you're demi/grey-a until you're in some sort of relationship or at least get to know what you're attracted to (be it physical or emotional).
Re demisexuality:
http://demisexuality.org/articles/could-i-be-demisexual/
So you get turned on by sex itself, but not by the body?
Don´t think of you being asexual or demisexual. I think your mindset is normal and healthy.
No, I even think it´s gross being turned on by simple nudity. If I go to the pool in swimsuit or go to the sauna naked, I want to relax and I don´t want other people getting turned on.
Also, I´m a therapist and I´ve seen halfnaked or naked patients. While toilet training or while I accompany them to the gynecologist or patients running around halfnaked/naked on the ward. I´ve seen penises, I´ve seen boobs, I´ve seen it all.
But it doesn´t bother me or turn me on, because for me it´s work and patients are asexual for me.
Moreover, if someone gets easily turned on by simple nudity, it should be forbidden for him/her doing a job where patients/clients are halfnaked/naked.
I don´t get turned on by nudity. I also don´t get turned on by getting a massage or giving a massage. I even don´t get turned on if people are handsome and have a great body.
I get turned on if I watch or read about a hot sex scene. I get turned on by the smut atmosphere before having sex or a session. I get turned on by the charisma of sadistic dominat people, their gaze, when I see they are enjoying teasing me (or tying me or playing with me or other things...*cough*).
Can anyone recommend me mangas that's like Banana Fish?? I finished reading it yesterday and I need something to fill up the hole in my heart
Have u watched the anime?
yeah
I'm searching for this shounen ai with one guy (high school age I think) who had this adorable fat cat, but unfortunately that cat ate the second guys precious fish. The boy with the cat was outgoing and friendly while the one with the fish was kinda tsundere. Please let me know which manga it is if you know, I really want to reread it but I just don't have the energy too look through the 1000+ mangas I've read (￣∇￣")
This? Cat eats fish http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/koi_ni_mo_naranai/
Ah yeah it's that one thanks thanks ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
No prob
Can you guys take a min and list your all time favorite mangas?? I am in need of sum good quality stuff so just shower me with mangas (づ￣ ³￣)づ
Nanatsu no taizai
Usotoki rhetoric
Akatsuki no yona
Namaikizakari
Takane to hana
Haru no noroi
Tokyo ghoul;re
Komatta toki ni wa hoshi no kike
Most of all is shojo lol
Non-Yaoi
Black Haze
Noblesse
An Uncomfortable Truth
Bastard (hwang Youngchan)
Unordinary
Why Did Men Stop Wearing High Heels?
Haru no Noroi
Bloody Mary (SAMAMIYA Akaza) (If only it was yaoi)
Oresama Teacher
Running On Empty
Yoai
Blue Lust
Blood Bank
Koi Nanka Shitakunai
On Doorstep
Omowaseburi na Kimi no Tonari
Suki de Gomen
Katekyo!
Finder
What Lies at the End
Kowagaranai de, Soba ni Ite
Cut
Window Beyond Window
Koisuru Boukun
Ote O Haishaku
Jibun Katte. (Best uke ever!!!)
If you Hate Me That Much
A Man Like You
Sadistic Beauty
Meeting him
Yume Musubi, Koi Musubi
Hinekure Chaser
Detain
Eto Irokoi Zoushi
Life Senjou no Bokura (SADDEST STUFF EVER)
Sasayaku no wa Sono Yubi
Danshi koukouseiteki kazoku kaikaku
Kuro ookami to gin kitsune
Omar allergy
Sasaki to miyano
Cherry Blossoms After Winter
Yowamushi danshi, renai hajimemasu
Kemono jihen
Bloody Mary(samamiya akaza)
Ten count
Lumine
Yasashiku koroshite, boku no kokoro o
THEO
Motoyan Papa to hitsuji-sansei
What lies at the end
Peach love
The best smell
Koketsu dining
The last zombie
Phantom school
Shirk fechi nanka no sukarete tamaru ka
Well that's most of them I hope they are useful(most of them are yaoi/BL and the others are action or shounen ai!
Everyone, can u please take a minute and recommend me your favorite yaoi/shounen ai mangas?? I feel like I haven't found a good one in so long, so please give me sum quality stories (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
Anything you prefer? (Trag, psych, fluff, angst, etc)
my fav.
-19 day
-never understand
-circle
my favorite mangas are:
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/sayonara_itoshi_no_my_friend/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/only_you_only/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/mujihi_na_otoko/ (and its sequels mujihi na anata and mujihi na karada)
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/nemuri_otoko_to_koi_otoko/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/akai_ito_no_shikkou_yuuyo/
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cute, funny and hot:
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/ashita_wa_docchi_da/
(actually just about everything from this author is great! http://www.mangago.zone/r/l_search/?name=Yamamoto%20Kotetsuko)
Dark, sexy, mature, psychological, or just great and awesome:
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/saezuru_tori_wa_habatakanai/
kinda bit more realistic, hot and gorgeous art:
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/neon_sign_amber/
Love this one, so much drama -
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/on_doorstep/
This one too, though it has more fluff and it is longer.
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/yume_musubi_koi_musubi/
This one too. Love the guilty look on the seme's face.
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/if_you_hate_me_that_much/
You can search in my lists but the most are popular ones and theres a lot...
"Ouji no Hakoniwa", "19 Days", "What lies at the end", "Minori no te", "Rouge", "Yatamomo., "All about lust", "Cherry blossom after winter" and "Cry for me" basically just http://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/110390/
an innocent sin
(but it hasnt been updated here for ages)
http://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/47826/?filter=&page=9 start from the back. these are the mangas i really like out of all the ones i have read so far.
You know I've been wondering this for a while but from which manga/anime is this guy from?? http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/gunjou_no_subete/mi/227a4d2d0a2b081ba5eda4b692170817_chapter-2/1/
Any yaoi/shounen ai where the uke or seme is a young master or the next head of a company/yakuza??
If you want more...please tell me(⌒▽⌒)
hahah yeah i'm running out of mangas to read so if u have more then please tell me (づ￣ ³￣)づ
http://www.mangago.zone/tag/Yakuza/
Here you can find many and any manga about yakuza...hope you enjoy
Recommend some yaoi mangas with student x teacher?? ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
Have you ever read this? http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/yukidoke_no_koi/
The story is so good, very heartwarming.
Pink to mameshiba ^o^
Sensei Nante Kirai Desu
Koi ni Nare
A question guys, do you prefer "senpai" or "sempai"? I personally like senpai more, since I just think it looks better with a n (=・ω・=)
Senpai coz I am a Senpai :)
Senpai (=・ω・=)
I prefer all the 「ん」to be romanized as "n" for consistency, but I do read it as "sempai".
Senpai since thats the proper way to pronounce it.
the way we pronounce is the same as japan, as in phonetic and sempai is definitely easier to say
Use "sempai" for the people you absolutely adore, "senpai" for the regular senpai's
Doesn't matter either way coz Senpai will never notice you.
XD
hahah. oh noes!! Σ(っ°Д °;)っ
Lol. This ^ Hahahaha. Harsh but true
Senpai.
why are you so cruel?? MY HEART...IT'S BREAKING...but you're right huhuhuhu ╥﹏╥
R.I.P attention from senpai
To all of you out there who have experienced more things in life than me, is kissing honestly nice? When i read it (like in a book) or see it drawn in manga it looks quite nice and enjoyable, but when i try to imagine kissing someone it's just a mouth against a mouth with a bit of licking, nothing i would enjoy. A kiss feels like a weird awkward angle with noses and teeth getting in the way, and i get more repulsive than turned on imagining a tounge in my mouth. And even wothout tpunge, i can't really understand the appeal in just pressing lips against each other?? I think this have something to do with what i asked about in a previous question (about how i can't imagine getting turned on by a body and if i'm asexual/demi etc. Feel free to answer that question too, if you wanna), and it further pushes my suspicion about me being ace or demi. I get that a first kiss can be pretty bad and awkward, since you're inexperienced etc. But even with a good kisser i can't imagine it as anything other than wet, slippery and messy. To mee, kissing feels like something i wouldn't neccesarily enjoy or dislike, just something i would do because i like a person and would do it for them. Is kissing nice to you guys? Does anyone feel the same as I? Is this repulsivness something normal, that's gonna disappear after i actually experienve a kiss? I welcome all answers and theories, give it to me ( • ω• )✧
It's because imagination and fiction is better than real life. I'm 21 and I had 3 boyfriends and I never enjoyed kissing even tho I liked them for their personalities. Kissing was just always awkward and strange for me but in fiction it's erotic.
Should mention that I'm asexual, 5 years since I've realized that.
Yeah, it does feel nice. I don't know why but the feeling of someone's lips touching mine always makes me feel giddy on the inside. But I guess it depends on the person, like maybe some people would rather not.
Some people probably enjoy it, but I've always had a thing against Saliva. Took me years to even let my friends drink from the same cup as me. I never kissed my Ex, sure we did a quick peck on the lips but never frenched. Though I should mention I'm asexual and aromantic. Haven't dated since.
I enjoy kissing, it does feel good. It isn't anything excessively good mind me, but still when you do it you don't wanna stop. I can understand how you may find the idea a bit disgusting but it's not that much of a big deal. Kissing is a way of expressing attraction and brings you closer to the other person. Also mind that people may have preferences about kissing, some don't like deep wet kisses some do... so to each is own, you will find out when you do it.
if the other person knows how to kiss then yes, kissing is pretty nice.
my first kiss was way back so i cant actually remember how exactly did it feel but it was a bit awkward for sure. believe me, the first time is always weird. either cause u r nervous or ur partner is not experienced(if u have ur first kiss when u r a bit older there are lower chances for the 2nd to occur).
i dont know ur age so i cant tell if its normal or not to feel a bit weird about it but its the most normal thing u'll do when u r in a relationship.
Take it from someone who was a kissing whore in their teens lol it can be nice or awful. Depends on your attraction to the person. Honestly I don’t remember much from the first. During the first it’s like you’re so nervous you blank out. Then at home you feel so tingly and can’t stop thinking about that person