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not farfetched at all i think that may actually be it

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I dont know why this is so funny to me but youre so right jskdjd

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When you think about it though he was probably saying the truth. Before this mission he wasn't into men, but then he met Hajun so it is possible tho he's into Hajun he's not into men Hajun is an exception.

well to start off, thats not possible; if youre attracted to a man, youre mlm, thats end of discussion. it'd really suck if the authors one of 'those' that make their characters straight with an "expection" since that gives off homophobic energy. almost as if authors who do that are repelled by gay men but are ok with using them as entertainment.

I mean it doesn't come off as that for me? He said himself that's he's only been attracted to women prior, but now he's into Hajun. I guess he really could have just been Bi this entire time and only just found a guy he liked. But it doesn't come off as homophobic to me cause if he found one who's to say he can't find more doesn't it just mean gender doesn't matter at the end of th day that the person is the one who matters?

of course, i agree your last statement, the person is all that matters but to put it in a better perspective its like you'll call yourself straight and like a man? whats wrong with being bi or having attraction to men? almost of if youre ashamed of it

No I completely get that and it's nothing to be ashamed of it's completely normal. But I do know some people that aren't comfortable with it or just haven't gotten to that point will continue to feel that way you know? And he doesn't seem to have fully come to terms with it. Though everyone should get by this point that it's nothing to be ashamed of sadly not all of society does and some people sadly still can't come to terms with it even sadly people that are gay or bi or any other form of the LGBTQ+ community I have a friend that's gay and even though by this point he gets that he is he still kinda dismisses that part of himself cause of the family he grew up with it's sad.

yeah of course, i was like that to my attraction to men myself but i mean thats real life and this is a story. bl is seen to some in the east as a movement to normalize it; normalizing isnt "i am repulsed by the label but i'll go along with it" as its demonstrated in alot of BL. id like to say this is on the author rather then the character but i guess we'll never know. its just a bother seeing characters who are written as such.

Yeah I get you