
It's called "where the heart leads" and I can't find it here if you have it please send the link

is it this one?
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/as_the_heart_leads/

The uke feels unlovable and like everyone he loves leaves him eventually. The ukes brother dies when they're kids and his mother(maybe aunt) blamed him and said he should've died instead. At the start of the story the seme sees the uke on the roof of their school afterschool and the seme thinks he's about to jump so he rushes up there and plays it off as being a coincidence that the uke believes and then they become friends. The uke is in love with the seme during highschool but the seme looked like he was never interested in the uke (or they might've dated I don't remember that well). The seme grows up and turns out to have commitment issues and keeps having flings or dating for a bit then breaking up. The seme starts seeing the uke after all these years and stops having commitment issues. The uke works at the seme's company and intially doesn't want to date the seme for fear that he might get dumped or make the seme hate him. The seme eventually convinces the uke he's serious by introducing him to his grandfather and giving the uke a job being his grandfather's caretaker and having the uke move in with his grandfather. The graandfather gave the uke yellow candy.
I remember there was a flashback to the uke's ex where he said something along the lines "you really know how to make someone get sick of you" when breaking up with him.
The uke had blue-ish hair and the seme had brown-ish purple-ish hair. I'm pretty sure they don't have smut until the uke moves in with the grandfather.

It's a korean historical fantasy where one of the guys has white long hair and I'm pretty sure is a supernatural being or uses magic and he also takes care of a black haired child (not sure of hair length) who I think is a dragon...?
It was in my tabs and I was less than 5 chapters in when I lost the tab.

is it this?
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/paljae/

The MC reincarnates as a bitchy duchess stepmom in a story. OG plot is that OG FL cross dresses to get into the dukes army and the duke is the ML and he has a curse that makes him go crazy with bloodlust and he kills the duchess and his daughter. The reincarnated FL warms up to the duke and her daughter and stops being bitchy. Duchess is blonde with green eyes and Duke has white hair and red eyes. They have a daughter. At one point FL stitches up Dukes's wounds.

The lead is an idol/actor who is a brat. His sex tape gets leaked he gets harassed for not only being a dick but also gay. His boss/contract guy (they have an implied sexual/romantic thing but it's more power and control than romance) leaves him and fires him after a nastry fan interaction leads him to getting facial scars. Then he dies and goes back in time from some magic from his fortune telling mom/grandma (I don't remember) who is dead.
He goes back in time leaves his agency and his boss, is nicer to his agent, the guy who was in his sex tape was a big boss to a different company and whose family visited the fortunetelling lady for business advice also he's the main love interest. The main guy is a uke with brown hair and the love interest has black hair. The MC has a plot about starring in a crime/mystery show that was a big hit in the OG timeline.

Guys I know everyone hates Jaekyung everytime I leave and come and check the most recent comments on the mangago homepage it's everyone hating on Jaekyung in the season 2 premiere (as they should) but dear lord I could not have imagined the magnitude of people that would be wanting to see this man suffer. There's always a new reader that just found out that it's back and is delighted at this man's misery

Villainess reincarnation manhwa where the villainess had dark pink eyes and white hair. She had the OG ML be trapped and her slave also she wore a mask while visiting his trapped house. ML has yellow eyes and black hair and he kinda liked being her slave so when she lets him go he's upset. He then becomes emperor and asks her to marry him. There was some stuff about how he wanted to reverse their roles as master and slave. She started dream hopping before I stopped reading also she had nail polish on that matched her eyes

When refering to your genres/tropes demographics do you believe it is correct to refer to them as women, femme presenting or (she/hers)? (I understand men and masculine presenting people also read these genres I just generalize as I assume they're in the minority)
I got into a recent argument as I was repreatedly having to reiterate and defend myself from being called a misogynist for refering to the creators and consumers of thses genres as mainly heterosexual women or just women attracted to men and how sometimes SOME of them don't see homosexual men as people and see them sometimes as objects of their desire for their enjoyment and male love interests as simply part of their self-insert character arc where they fix a broken or traumatized man with the power of love, femininity and virginity.
I understand that these groups and types of people are not the entire demographic of readers nor writers. I also understand that this trope and character usage is common in storytelling directed at women with a major example of this being twilight but was I wrong to assume that the demographic consistent mainly of women attracted to men?

Honestly I'm on your side about everything you said, or at least most of it. But I feel like the way you're using the already very loose term for this demographic, can come off as misogynistic or insulting. Because for many other demographics (hell even twilight), just use the pronouns that fit their demographics and don't include their sexualities. That's really as best as I can explain it.
It was a straight harem where a guy got points for doing certain sex things. Like he got one that was invisibility and one that stopped time. There was a 3some between two girls that were friends. There was a part where he made one of the girls walk into a convenience store with no underwear just a button up shirt.