I'm 100000000000000000000% sure you aren't the only one. My family is also homophobic, boderline sexist and a borderline bigot.
A lot of people have parents like this so you are not alone ^°^ sadly I don't know what to say or what advice to really give but to just keep fighting through then get away as soon as you can I hope you're okay ️
Emotional neglect/damage from father and politics, but besides that. I mean, its ok to get out of the house but secure your finances, don't be reckless and get in a worse situation .
i'm in a very similar situation at the moment with my mom and stepdad my mother and stepfather are very homophobic and sexist and i consider them verbally abusive i cope through painting, writing, drawing, listening to music that helps me relax or get my emotions out and venting to my closest friend if this helps at all..
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