Moanssss's Topics (374)

Yeah, actually the main couple's story feels rushed.

ewwww wtfffff

Not every bl has to have a seme and uke

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For me it's kinda obvious. The big guy is the top. Normally in story, the naive curious new to bl type of guys always gonna be the top(๑•ㅂ•)و✧

okay why do you need to know that? also they don’t have to have certain roles like “top” and “bottom”.. or they could just not be into sex, asexual people exist.. either way, i don’t see why it concerns you as it has nothing to do with the story

Ewh what-

I mean ever if not in a sexual like there has to be one that makes to first move right the one who takes the initiative(seme) like even in stories where nothing happens you can tell who the more aggressive starting the relationship type and i cant with this one they both are so non aggressive

I just want to know whos gonna be the aggressive one that pushes the relationship like not so much as a sexual push but who actually pushes the relationship if that makes sense like who will make the first move

it's okay to question it they are fictional characters not real people

I see where you’re coming from but it still isn’t right

im so extremely confused at the people saying ew- if you find homosexual relationships 'gross' then you shouldn't be reading stories like this? its extremely rude and homophobic.

to answer your question my thoughts are yechan for the uke since he seems like he would prefer to be spoiled by ham.

the reason people are saying ew isn’t because we’re homophobic, obviously, or else we wouldn’t read this stuff, but because it’s like fetishizing gay men. why do you need to know if they are the uke or seme? they don’t have to be either

but at the same time if you are assuming it without fetishizing them and if you don’t insist these terms on anyone then that’s fine

I'm sorry if my comment came across as harsh but personally just find it annoying when people try to apply stereotypical seme/uke roles to bl's that obviously don't follow them. I understand where you're coming from but I'd recommend not using the terms uke and seme unless you're specifically referring to top/bottom bed positions. Again sorry if this came across as me being rude.

I agree about your concerns over fetishising gay men 100%, and considering what someone's sexual orientation is could lead down that road for sure, so there's no need to apologise for being abrupt. You're right about the dangers of stereotypes too.

I just personally feel that in the same way fetishising guys is horrible, so is reading a shounen ai and being grossed out at the thought of two people possibly having sex, even 'off-screen'. If the comment's were all like yours I wouldn't have even mentioned anything so this isn't aimed at you at all, I just thought I'd question the ew's since it's derogatory.

i didn't ask ? Also you know nothing about me nor my real morals so you no right to say your opinion about me, respect real people before you defend fictional characters

No I get where you’re coming from so don’t apologize i guess my terminology wasn’t the best. My thing is in every relationship there always one person who more aggressive who starts the relationship ya know i guess thats what i was going for. I mean the whole reason you read stories that are slow burns like this is cause they are cute and usually dont lead to sex but i mean even in stories like salad days and such like boxer boy is the more aggressive one that pushes there relationship along i guess what i was trying to get at and just used to wrong terminology was that neither of them seem like they are overly aware of their feelings and are pushing drastically towards a relationship. so like who’s gonna be the one to push them where they need to go? If that makes sense

if you see it as fetishising gay men it's your problem because i won't dare to say that about real people, and if you think it isn't right on a fictional level then i am doing something that isn't right what are you doing to do about it ? Nothing, know that people Who can control their imagination exsit, people Who can seperate fiction from reality exist .

Ah ok when you word it like that it definitely makes much more sense. And as for who's gonna push the relationship along I honestly can't guess yet because Hechan obviously has stronger feelings at the moment but purple haired guy (sorry I forgot his name) seems like he might be the more dominant one in the relationship. So we'll just have to wait and see.

I’m sorry if my comment came across as harsh or rude, and I do agree with you, my comment wasn’t aimed at just you directly as of course i don’t know anything about you but I was a little frustrated as I’ve come across so many people who forced those terms on guys, even in real life

thanks for clearing that up, I completely agree with you

oh okay, that make much more sense now. sorry if any of my comments came across as rude, i only meant to express my thoughts on people who use these terms to fetishize gay men

I can see what you’re saying here because isn’t that what fan fiction is in a way?

sorry i was rude too ,people tend to police others over their imagination as it tells everything about their morals , i didn't think you would really try to see my point ,and yes unfortunatly people who focus on homosexual 's life on that light exist and they are horrible for not considering real people's feelings.