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Let me just share my valuable tid bit of useless and insignificant drama in my life that is objectively not that big of a deal but bothers me anyway, especially because I'm too far ahead in the timeline to complain about it openly. So I found out, like 2-4 years ago already, that my highschool ex has been calling me his cousin behind my back while......   2 reply

Read isekai > enjoy the cliches > be frustrated about the bad cliches > write own isekai > ADHD kicks in > browse other isekai > repeat Help.   1 reply

Welcome to genre burnout. You know the tropes and grew tired of them. You might want the BL but you want the kind of BL that subverts what you're used to. Something in your brain grew tired of seeing the gay cliches. Fanfics can involve those cliches, but shipping culture as a whole is defying "reality" and the status quo to make whatever ship y......   reply

Was followed through the neighborhood by Neo nazis bc my friends and I were covering up their ugly grafitti swastikas with posters   reply

Get yourself some pain meds brother. Also yes, appendicitis is out of the picture at this point unless your gut is built like a truck. There are still very painful things like bladder and kidney stones tho, which might not be deadly but can require surgery and hurt like your stomach was hit by a truck instead. Go see a doctor if it goes on for ano......   reply

Eat more fibre in the future. More fruits (not simply bananas but also grapes, apples if those are affordable), whole wheat bread, oats and nuts. Lactose and caffeine also help, but you need to change up your diet if you don't want the problem to come back. It MIGHT also help your acne. Also important: drink water. Don't underestimate the power of......   reply

Yea it's been like that with Yaoi for decades now. Even the old school stuff got rape. Imo it's because yaoi is so sex-centered, also bc gay relationships are poorly understood by some writers, or just mishandled bc they ain't got the time. And part of me is convinced that a lot of people find it either hot or problematic, so people engage with th......   reply