You thought the agreement was mutual.so you were pleased because you get what you want and she get what she want and you can go on with being a lousy husband to a doll wife who won't complaint. But now you discovered, apparently what you thought she want, she doesn't need it after all. Your ground is crumbling down. Because now, the agreement is one sided. In which you need her, beyond being a puppet but she doesn't need anything from you. In fact, if she walks right now, you lose.... Muahahaha
But it's all fine to me.