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what is the obsession with authors making the bottom an absolute abusive bitch and then making the top very tolerant and self blaming?? it's just so annoying because the bottom will be extremely physically and emotionally abusive, but the top just puts up with it. and then when the bottom finally starts acting like a decent human we are just supposed to forget the entire time the bottom was a complete asshole. seriously, what is up with that?? it ruins so many good plotlines and it's just terrible to see. especially when readers just act like nothing happened, like NO the bottom is a terrible person news flash