I'm thinking both the MC and Graham were reborn but just like the MC, Graham has a plan on how to stay together.
what if instead of being reborn the hero is just chosen by whoever is with the MC at the time, and the dark haired one is the one who pics them because he wants MC [Jun] so he tries to break her engagements off and get her to himself , and the memories the MC can't remember are memories of him trying to get the MC to his side[fall for him?]
"Smh my head"