Your question is compelling and your reasoning is spot on. The situations depicted in 9 out of 10 Yaoi are "ravishment" and not rape. Ravishment differs from rape because in ravishment both parties desire the sexual contact. In most Yaoi we read things like "No, wait, stop" and assume this means the person is rejecting the situation, when in fact, ......
tbh I'm realy afraid of dying coz I know there is hell and heaven and and no matter how I think of it I did nothing in my life that could get me to heaven I wasted my time reading manga and watching anime my relationship with my family is bad and I lie alot I didn't work for my life I took every thing in my life as a joke No one will remember me
Rape in yaoi: Yes or No? (And why)