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i hate this bitch n it’s not for a petty reason, it’s bc she’s so rude n passive aggressive with him. He felt so bad when the condom broke n she said there’s no point apologizing for because he could never feel the anxiety and worrying she’s feeling. n it seems like she’s just using him for his body and for his food? what the fuck??
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seriously if i try defending this girl imma need u to get the hell up outta here.
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actually the roles ARE usually reversed. the entire POINT of this comic is that the "roles are reversed" and the woman is the one who wants/loves sex and the man is the one dragging his feet. man = more sexually needy or aggressive or the iniatiator is such a standard trope in romance of any kind (whether it has sex or not) that we dont even blink at it. yall wouldnt even notice half the stuff havi says or does as "problematic" if she was a man. you'd take it as a matter of course because thats What Men Do or w/e.
Also unlike men irl she has no power with which to make him do anything he doesnt want to do. she cant force him physically, she has no financial power over him, no workplace or legal authority, she doesnt verbally abuse or gaslight him into making him doubt himself or subsume his own needs for hers. she is just vocal and straightforwrd and assertive about what she wants and who she is as a person. which if she if she was a guy NO ONE would think anything was offputting about that cause we as a society accept and expect men to 1. be assertive and 2. want/need sex. like so much of this bullshit wrt Havi in the comments is because she is a woman not in spite of it. like just sit and think about what media usually portrays male leads in romantic relationships and then come back and tell me that Havi is somehow 100x worse than any of those guys are. (Havi is outgoing and loud, Yul is quiet and reserved. somehow this has caused people to interpret Havi as a bully and Yul as a pushover. which is unfair to both of them. Yul is very stubborn and very intelligent, he is not easy to bully or to manipulate, yall are not giving him enough credit and being way harsher on Havi than any of her actions warrant)
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"Shit on women" gurl, stop, gender enters again for some reason. That's the thing we give out our own opinions then u reply as if u want us to go with what u say. "Maybe YOU should leave"???? maybe it wasnt your intention but all your replies to us seem that youre either pushing what u think and u want us to abide from that. And obviously people wont like that, so stop replying to negative comments about Havi because we wont care, so lets just agree to disagree.
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We don't s*it on women. I personally believe in gender equality and I stand by it WHOLEHEARTEDLY. However, I don't tolerate people who are manipulative, toxic, and whith obvious r*pists traits. I do not condone them nor stand by them and defend them the wat you do! With all due respect to you and to your opinion, this whole situation does not make sense to me! And the way you literally push your opinion is very questionable on so many levels. Nobody is shutting you up the way you did to others. Anyway, in conclusion, B R U H
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im at chapter 3 n i have already noticed that he is grooming her...also the whole consent talk w that kid was was so ironic GOD. the first time he put it in, it was obvious he is selfish and is doing this for his own needs, he doesn’t care about how rough he is and that she would like for him to slow down. She can’t see what’s wrong because at the end of the day shes being groomed + she’s a kid, he’s a grown man, and some young girls like the attention. especially if it’s from someone older, sadly, this is a common case.
WHY ARE PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT RACIAL PREJUDICE AND THE HOLOCAUST IN THE COMMENTS????