I know I wouldn't. Which is why I can't forgive Carcel for that. And it's not like he knew Ines wanted him to cheat either so that was all on him too. (And if you would do that, I honestly don't know what to say to you). However I can appreciate that he's having some character development now.
As for his mother, if someone put that much thought into designing a place for me, I would melt and die happy. The introvert in me loves her for that. Hope she doesn't hurt Ines in the future.