Also, everyone in the lgbt community can use the term faggot, but only parts of it can use other slurs. For example, only trans people can use the t slur, only lesbians can use the d slur(lesbo is semi offensive) and so forth. So, if you are part of the community, this is just a friendly reminder to be respectful towards your fellow members.
Haha I had to tell my mom what yaoi was because my husband, in conversation while we were hanging out one day was like "Oh yeah she's always just reading her BL never paying attention to me." (which was a joke, but also super true. I don't hear shit around me when I'm hard focused on a good story.) I was like yeah its manga, but like gay and smutty......
STRAGGOT ISNT A SLUR. WTF IS UP W U?