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I’ve honestly been really confused about my sexuality for a WHILE. So I was like might ask others their opinion.
So I’m honestly rlly confused because I find men and woman attractive but the thing is I never really want to do anything sexually with them. But I don’t think I’m asexual bc honestly I love os so I’m like what the hell.
Literally any help I’m begging like I acc don’t know
just say bi-curious
I am the same in the way that I am attracted to women but I don't want to have sex with them but I am not asexual
I have gone on the internet to find out why and this is what I have found (this may not be completely correct and there could be other reasons)
-being exposed to porn at an early age
-some kind of trauma relating to sex (ex:sa)
-hormonal imbalance
-shame about having sex or masturbating(ex: cultural shame around sex)
-anxiety
I think you're still asexual. Bc asexual doesn't mean u have no sexual desire AT ALL. U can look it up on Google what asexual means. Some asexuals might have very low sexual desires too. Honestly if u still don't feel comfortable labeling urself as asexual, just don't label urself. U don't have to have a word to describe urself. I personally think ur a biromantic asexual. I hate labels tho so I'm still encouraging u not to focus too much on the labels and just live
Maybe you’re demisexual, means you can only have se x with someone you have an emotional connection. So no one night stands
Yeah. Like they said, if you want, you don't have to label yourself.
I was actually confused about whether to label myself pan or bi, since ever since I was a kid, I already have some sort of attraction to both genders. I once identified myself as gay, though, since I tend to be attracted to guys. Even though, I also liked girls. Yeah, I just thought gay was the term, even though, I knew bi existed. I dunno what I was thinking. I only learned about the term pan, years later.
Although, as I grew up, I don't really know anymore. I think I'm a bi, since I have a preference for guys. But I also think I'm a pan, since there's a part of me that doesn't really care about gender.
I heard bi people isn't just limited to girls and boys, and pan can have gender preferences too.
But still, I don't really know. I just don't feel it's one or the other. But if someone had to ask, I would say I'm a pan. So, yeah! But really, I think labels don't matter much.
Welp, I saw this again and thought I should answer, in a different way.
Well, I call myself a pan, but I wouldn't want to have sex with someone. At least, I prefer not to, but it's not like I'm against sex. But I can still have sexual or romantic feelings for anyone, even if I don't want to have sex with them. That does make sense?
It's up to you what label you want to use. But personally, I think feeling attracted to someone doesn't mean you have to have sex with them.
I could identify as panromantic, pansexual or both but I don't think my attraction is limited to romantic or sexual feelings. So, I'm just a frying pan. Hehe~
Not saying pansexual or panromantic is just limited to sexual or romantic attraction.
=~= I just realized I've been lingering here for too long, sorry! I think it's fun to share what I think about this topic.
Well…. I relate to 4 out of 5 of these so that’s probably why :D
THANK YOU tho (づ￣ ³￣)づ
I’m looking for a Yaoi where they got transported into a game. The mc had white wings on his back and he was a king. Then the duke had black wings there was also a clock guy? PLEASE IF AO KNOWS THE NAME ╥﹏╥
How To Survive As A Player (Yaoi)
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/how_to_survive_as_a_player/
OMG I LOVE YOU THANK YOU SO MUCH (づ￣ ³￣)づ
If anyone’s read the ln does he ever get out???? Like I like it but if he never gets out….
I tried the ln and couldn’t get into it so. Any tiny spoilers ?