It's no problem to feel that way. From my side at least... But still that kind of "compliment" is uhmmm not really a "compliment" and I know you know it.
I'm sorry that I have no experience in this, but I can give you some advice from my point of view.. Sry if I'm kind of shit at this, I'm not the good advice giving type ╥﹏╥
So I think you c......