Authors really need to understand how bdsm works. I know that kissing might seems a trivial matter but if mc doesn't want, then ml shouldn't. He crossed it on the list, there a reason for it, what would be the point of having one if ML will do it anyway? And the excuse of having a safe word is shit. Even if MC actually likes kissing, ML can't be certain of it. I'll still read this bl because it's pretty cute, and aside with what I said previously, the ml is not too bad. I really hope it won't turn in something toxic â( TīšT )â
I feel conflicted about this bl, the bdsm scene are pretty great. But I can't help but feeling uncomfortable when they are used to settle a personal matter between the mc and ml. At that time, even if mc always says he liked it, I feel like ml is just toxic and possessive and not in love with him. It's hard to explain. I don't know if it's just me or if other people have the same feeling
100% agree. One of the basic things you keep in mind in bdsm is to never bring anything personal into the bedroom. It can be detrimental to the sub in so many ways and is an unhealthy coping mechanism for the dom
From MC I can understand if it happens but the ML is supposed to be a extremely experience dom like WHAT are you doing fr
Two men fighting over a Twink, my roman empire