Kurou's Topics (211)

I think I'm gonna have to strongly disagree here lol.
Just because you don't share your feelings with someone doesn't mean it's a fling and you don't love them (That's what I got from what you said, correct me if I'm wrong)
You can be in a relationship and not share your feelings right away
It takes time
Like if you go on a blind date, you're meeting up with a stranger, why the hell would you want to tell this person about your life? So you continue to see them and just have conversations and meet ups until you feel comfortable enough to share your feelings
If you don't trust your partner it also isn't a fling, you could just be insecure, I've seen it before, but as time passes by eventually you'll learn to rely and trust your partner, but just because you don't trust them and you're dating them does not mean it's a fling.
I'd say people found the manga annoying because of the way the seme treated sexual harassment and how the uke was basically so quiet at points
I also don't believe that the point of dating isn't only for emotional and physical support because I can get both those things for friends, when you date someone I believe you do it because you're interested in them romantically and would love to know more about them, you enjoy spending time with them romantically

Uhmm...I get your point and I agree, I mean, I can't disagree, more accurately... I guess it's just my way of dating then... I'm the type of person that first gets to know very well the person, then opens up and THEN start dating. I can't date if I don't make sure the other person is aware of my feelings and I'm sure of theirs.
I don't believe in the "let's start dating and then we'll see what comes out then" to me that's playing around, more like a gamble.

Thank you for your pov, just reminded me that there's a lot of ways to date. Still... My first comment is what bothered me about this manga -o-

What’s more frustrating here is the Uke’s half-baked decisions. First of all, who the hell misses the birthday of their LOVER just to accompany someone who ISN’T EVEN THEIR FRIEND and has continuously HARASSED them at work?

Communication doesn’t just develop in a day, that’s true, but if you only date someone because you are attracted to them romantically and have no future plans whatsoever, then I’d say that’s just a fling, or rather unstable, or even close to being toxic.

Also, if this is the definition of REALISTIC RELATIONSHIPS then count me out.

I’ve had gay friends who are very open to their partners.

Love is NOT COMPLICATED, what’s complicated are RELATIONSHIPS, relationships that has no proper communication.

My explanation wasn't referring to the story at all
The person had talked about relationships so that's where my explanation came in
Since the manga is fiction idk how to explain their relationship and idk what the author was doing or what they were going for
But I explained relationship from experience
I honestly don't even remember what this manga is about

I was just comparing the situations in this manga to my personal experiences orz

Oo

Pretty sure the same didnt have sex with anyone else

Nvm I just read the whole thing

Good n_ñ'

Yea I hate that trope a lot but I'm not really mad in this case. Cause it seems like the seme only slept with him to get the stuff for blackmailing tho it still seems unnecessary and he probs should have done it before cause it would cause less problems.

I wasn't questioning the character's I was questioning the intention of the author by creating that situation... This is just my personal taste and opinion though... I don't like that the seme is portrayed as a sex symbol, omnipotent and omniscient and the uke is treated as a pure and innocent damcel in distress... （￣へ￣）

Yea I totally get you. It's unnecessary mist times unless it adds to the story and it didnt just like the ex was actually coming back.

Hol up
When does it mention that? I probably missed it bc I skimmed through the chapter too fast (￣∇￣")

chapter 5 kinda at the beginning

yess I hate this kind of troupe,it's such a cliche nowadays. and it also made the seme seems very untrustworthy.

Because..they want to..?

I thought so too... But still it bothered me orz
I always tried to find the logic there. His family home is not so far from uni, he still has class and not working yet, so I can't comprehend why want to pay an extra rent

Because they can have segg with anybody bothering them

I don't think is for the sex, if so he wouldn't let the MC stay with him and a love hotel would do the trick... Ahh... Nvm sorry for dragging this...
I know story-wise is to give the MC's the situation... But I'm just too petty (￣∇￣")

and Shin is the older one too

Tbh I don’t know but in one of the chapters they were talking about how the house with Jin and stuff idk

The senpai told himself he'd confess once they met and he did. But I agree with winning him over because that library kissing scene was sexual assault and I'm glad Hibi rejected him. And i don't think Hibi ran into the arms of someone who is full of himself. The senpai did accept being rejected just like Hibi wanted, but Hibi was consistently shown to have had feelings for the senpai even if it was hate because he admitted disliking being away from his senpai after meeting him again.

Also, when they began dating and especially during the basketball scene, this is the senpai trying to win Hibi over. Cause courting never stops even your official, isn't it?

I get where you are going, but he didn't explain anything to uke, didn't have a proper conversation. He just pushed him and forced his feelings.

You know that he "intended to confess" and that at that time he wasn't sure of their feelings not because he told the uke, but because of his conversation with the granny. In all that time he didn't bother to look for him, so it was more like "ohhh I remember him, guess I'll confess now that he's here" to me. He bet in the confession he once received from uke and was so sure of uke's feelings for him, that bothered me.

Uke spent 5 years trying to forget and get over his crush and the seme just waited "patiently" until uke came to him again.

I know it's romantic and all, that's the point of the manga, to give the message "omg he's so in love, he waited for him for 5 years and now he's doing everything to win him over" but did he? Waited for what? He dumped him and told him his feelings were not real and selfishly 5 years later make a move and make him love him again and only because of the coincidence of uke working in the same place.

If that's how the story affected you, I won't argue. Nonetheless, it's true that it's because I am given Sugino's perspective that I am less aversive of his character (but i seriously hated how he forced himself on Hibi at the library ugh) at the same time it's because it showed his impatience, the regrets and consequences that it made him more human. The plot becomes less 2d because it's not perfect and they are distinct character meeting halfway.

Sugino wasn't given an easy out just because he loved Hibi and Hibi wasn't written out to be an easy catch. I have to disagree with how you phrased the message of the story though because it simplified the conflicts and emotions too much.

same

IM. WHEEZING.

You've killed me

Sorry.....? ):

she meant it in a good way

Ah maybe my english is bad or that's not an english expression sorry

Exactly

Lol nooo, what got me was the crying faces

Ahhh okay, crying face just means that I'm crying of laughing

Ok