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Your entire message misses the point that he met him dressed as a woman. This wasn't a surprise he found out later. If you don't want to be with someone who cross dresses be honest.. don't pretend everything is ok only to throw it in his face later. I would agree with you if he met him as a man and found out he cross dressed later but that is not the casel

okay so because he met him as a woman he doesn’t have the right to feel uncomfortable? that doesn’t make sense? yes he knew but that doesn’t mean he has to be immediately accepting of it. cross dressing or not younghwa does love our seme. you can’t act like he’s not entitled to have his own feelings of discomfort

Did he share these feelings of discomfort? Did he let him know he was struggling with it? Nope he just avoided going out with him unless he didn't cross dress. I am not saying him having those feelings are wrong I am saying he is only considering himself when thinking those feelings through.. and if that was the case he shouldn't have allowed himself to get that far along only to throw him away. This goes for all couples dealing with all types of difficult situations.. if you go in to it knowing that something your partner does is a problem for you and you don't address that you can't turn around and throw it in their face later or runaway without explanation.. thats wrong on so many levels!

I have too agree with @Tboff, glasses dude is falling in love with someone, who he thought crossdresses for "fun". In my opinion the reason why he cried was because he felt guilty knowing that he was trying to change something without thinking of the impact it had on the other dude. To put it bluntly, he's falling for the guy, but not his lifestyle, hence the guilt when he attempted to change that.
But idk, tbh i could totally be wrong. ╮(￣▽￣)╭

i understand what you both are saying but I still believe that Younghwa has the right to learn how to adjust and embrace something that is foreign to him. We all can see he loves our seme, now it’s just a matter of embracing ALL of him and not just the parts he’s comfortable with. I just think he needs some time. Also thank you for having such a good conversation about this instead of cursing me out lolol

Oh yeah for sure, i don't hate him. I actually felt relieved when he cried, cuz, as i mentioned previously, it gives the impression that he is guilty for wanting to change the dude.

Fair enough... i think my perspective is he needs to be more communicative in this situation! Love the chat you guys! Its nice hearing different perspectives!

I'm glad, because honestly you both brought up really good perspectives, that i genuinely agree with.
It's 10 times better than people just hating on a character for being "annoying"

bc he was just manipulating seowoo(´･_･`) in the other chapter he was using the excuse of "you cant do it yourself so I WILL change him" and then saying "what do you you want YOU ASKED ME to help" he did that with all the wrong intentions he KNEW he was falling for Ohn so thats why he did that knowing his brother would be uncomfortable with him doing that like uhhh at this point Jaewoo is only helping himself not his brother anymore

exactly, i get seowoo is shy but don’t be shocked when jaewoo acts like this especially when ur making him do everything for you. jaewoo was rude but i don’t blame him tbh

i’m sorry but yall cannot expect Jaewoo to put his own feelings on hold to uphold Seowoo’s…. like i get it’s manipulative but Seowoo asking Jaewoo to approach Ohn as himself is also manipulative so i just can’t bring myself to feed bad for him. Like Imagine how Ohn will feel when the game between these two brothers is revealed. mans will be crushed and it’ll just add to his trauma

Exactly and the fact that now seowoo is able to talk to ohn and jaewoo did that in the last chapter and this in this chapter makes me side with seowoo x ohn