Bedazzle bitch June 4, 2024 8:59 pm

Any recs with verse relationship? I just hate wasted potential. So many great books stuck with heteronormative relationships when both of them could bottom or top

Bedazzle bitch January 18, 2024 12:31 am

Going through some bad stuffs. Please recommend the funniest mangas/manwas you know. I know some laughs

Bedazzle bitch September 25, 2023 11:06 am

I'll go first. I love me some enemies to lovers, versed couple, outgoing+introverted.

    Every girls girlfriend September 25, 2023 11:17 am

    I like very slow paced storys and strong chemistry even if they are not dating .
    I am tired of pretty people in cliche romances and romance ruining good mangas

    Tartaglia September 25, 2023 11:21 am

    Same, slowburn + chemistry is just the best, I hate harems & love triangles

    kira September 25, 2023 11:44 am

    I love slowburn + enemies to lovers, golden retriever x black cat. Im tired of love triangles or a cliche plot

    YAOI__GIRL September 25, 2023 1:02 pm

    I LOVE slowburn, quiet x popular, and office romance.

    I HATE persistent love interest, love angles, and annoyingly bubbly characters (I like puppy characters tho)

    [黄] ₙ ₑ ₖ ₒ September 25, 2023 1:13 pm

    reencounter trope!

    NellyBelly September 25, 2023 1:39 pm

    I love me some enemies to lovers, tragedy, slow burn, also when their personalities are completely different, and office romance
    I'm honestly tired of when one is super petite and the other is super buff , like the size difference is BIG. I mean I'd still read it if the plot is there

Bedazzle bitch September 9, 2023 12:28 pm

A genuine question bc I just don't understand. Like what is the reason? Is it for angst, drama? I truly don't get it.

Edit: I don't mind toxicity but there's a level to this. I don't like unequal relationships. If the ML is a piece of shit, I want the MC to be equally as bad or worse. Tats for tats, you feel me? If the ML is on demon time, why is MC out here being mother Teresa of suffering? This is not suffering Olympics. Get your lick back!

    Nav <3 September 8, 2023 10:44 pm

    I swear they do it whenever they have nothing else to add to the story. Ig sucks but sigh

    HELPMELMAO September 8, 2023 10:47 pm

    plot

    Bedazzle bitch September 8, 2023 10:56 pm
    plot HELPMELMAO

    How so? Most of the time, they don't acknowledge or address the severity of it. They just sweep it under the rug like the person who's supposed to love you and cherish you just violate your trust and body in the most asinine way.

    HELPMELMAO September 8, 2023 10:59 pm
    How so? Most of the time, they don't acknowledge or address the severity of it. They just sweep it under the rug like the person who's supposed to love you and cherish you just violate your trust and body in th... Bedazzle bitch

    after a while the authors dont got shit to do bc its the same thing being all fluffy and light, so in order to bring popularity or more interest to it, they introduce THAT shit for plot and then fuck up the whole story, its the new thing nowadays

    Bedazzle bitch September 8, 2023 11:04 pm
    after a while the authors dont got shit to do bc its the same thing being all fluffy and light, so in order to bring popularity or more interest to it, they introduce THAT shit for plot and then fuck up the who... HELPMELMAO

    Ahhh, I see what you mean. I wish it wasn't a trend because so many stories had so much potential to be ruined just like that

    Jujucat September 8, 2023 11:21 pm

    Tbh, Green flags get quite boring.
    You barely get any character development from fluffy and the stories just feel as if they’re dragging. Cherry Blossoms After Winter is an example of this. I do love it but it could’ve ended less than 2 seasons ago.

    Toxicity makes things more entertaining

    Jujucat September 8, 2023 11:22 pm
    Tbh, Green flags get quite boring.You barely get any character development from fluffy and the stories just feel as if they’re dragging. Cherry Blossoms After Winter is an example of this. I do love it but it... Jujucat

    Interesting * entertaining isn’t the right word but I guess if it fits (● ̄(エ) ̄●)

    Bozo September 8, 2023 11:24 pm

    just for shits n giggles

    Bedazzle bitch September 8, 2023 11:30 pm
    Tbh, Green flags get quite boring.You barely get any character development from fluffy and the stories just feel as if they’re dragging. Cherry Blossoms After Winter is an example of this. I do love it but it... Jujucat

    But there's no many ways to toxic without being a grapist I enjoy a complex story with some good toxicity but rape just put a bad taste in my mouth

    ꜱʜᴏ. September 8, 2023 11:42 pm

    I genuinely wish I knew the answer, it’s why I’ll never pay $$ before reading BLs, most of the time they do a complete 180

    Bedazzle bitch September 8, 2023 11:45 pm
    I swear they do it whenever they have nothing else to add to the story. Ig sucks but sigh Nav <3

    Agreed!

    ꜱʜᴏ. September 8, 2023 11:45 pm
    Tbh, Green flags get quite boring.You barely get any character development from fluffy and the stories just feel as if they’re dragging. Cherry Blossoms After Winter is an example of this. I do love it but it... Jujucat

    Green flags aren’t boring. You’re just into toxic shit..

    HELPMELMAO September 8, 2023 11:48 pm
    Ahhh, I see what you mean. I wish it wasn't a trend because so many stories had so much potential to be ruined just like that Bedazzle bitch

    yeah, i agree - many had a lot of potential as you said but it also depends on the viewers, sometimes readers would msg the authors to add a bit more UMPH to it thus creating the toxicity, its what gets it fame i guess, green flags do get boring after some time since its the same shit everyday, but of course adding toxicity is fine to an extent just not rape or sm shit since that completely ruins it, to make it interesting you could make one of the characters possessive at the very least or sm shit but adding rape isnt justified at all imo

    Jujucat September 9, 2023 12:04 am
    Green flags aren’t boring. You’re just into toxic shit.. ꜱʜᴏ.

    Hmu when you can list 10 fluffy manhwas that don’t feel like they’re dragging

    Jujucat September 9, 2023 12:04 am

    This wasn’t stated start drama, I just gave them an answer because they asked

    Jujucat September 9, 2023 12:05 am
    This wasn’t stated start drama, I just gave them an answer because they asked Jujucat

    To start (๑•ㅂ•)و✧ I TYPE TOO FAST FOR MY OWN GOOD

    boba tea September 9, 2023 1:59 am
    Tbh, Green flags get quite boring.You barely get any character development from fluffy and the stories just feel as if they’re dragging. Cherry Blossoms After Winter is an example of this. I do love it but it... Jujucat

    I'm the opposite (⊙…⊙ ) Reading stories w/ green flags or at least decent characters feels like a breathe of fresh air imo. I'd assume you only read manhwas from the "it feels as if they're dragging", since most of most of them tends to have a lot of chapters.
    There are plenty of mangas that are interesting and isnt toxic, and they dont contain that much chapters, you'd feel like it's not enough. (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜 Anyway, at the end of the day it all comes down to preferences, so you do you

    Jujucat September 9, 2023 2:03 am
    I'm the opposite (⊙…⊙ ) Reading stories w/ green flags or at least decent characters feels like a breathe of fresh air imo. I'd assume you only read manhwas from the "it feels as if they're dragging", sin... boba tea

    Actually if you look at my profile you’d see ober the thousands of things I read 95% of them are mangas lol

    Jujucat September 9, 2023 2:03 am
    Actually if you look at my profile you’d see ober the thousands of things I read 95% of them are mangas lol Jujucat

    Over*

    Silent Lucidity September 9, 2023 2:05 am

    Most stories are about conflict. There's man vs man, man vs nature, man vs himself, man vs society, man vs the supernatural and man vs technology. So, for manga about relationships (especially the sex-driven ones), you'll see conflict (most often) between the mcs and there's always some degree of imbalance of power involved. Red-flag characters are often born from this type of story and they create a lot of drama, which many people enjoy.

    Tl;dr - Because it sells better :P

    Jujucat September 9, 2023 2:07 am

    Also the only reason I said manhwas was because Mangas are usually 6-13 chapters long ( ̄∇ ̄")

    boba tea September 9, 2023 2:10 am
    Actually if you look at my profile you’d see ober the thousands of things I read 95% of them are mangas lol Jujucat

    I forgot this option exists lol but thanks! That's good then!
    Also, the Cherry blossoms after winter part, I wouldnt blame the author for making another season bcs it was really a hit back then. (Though I havent read the other season until now)

    diestodumbways September 9, 2023 2:18 am
    Tbh, Green flags get quite boring.You barely get any character development from fluffy and the stories just feel as if they’re dragging. Cherry Blossoms After Winter is an example of this. I do love it but it... Jujucat

    nah the fuck no no- just in the name of plot I dont want rape or abuse in it. Why can't they just make a wholesome story??

    Jujucat September 9, 2023 2:28 am
    nah the fuck no no- just in the name of plot I dont want rape or abuse in it. Why can't they just make a wholesome story?? diestodumbways

    Idk if you’re cursing at me for answering a question that was clearly going to get an honest answer to, but if you are please take that elsewhere because I was just answering and there’s no need to attack people over their opinion of a fictional story line like a child.

    If you aren’t, I apologize for reading it the wrong way but there’s a good bit of fluffy stories out there. Just not manhwa wise because Korean authors often join together to make stories that appeal to readers and most people live for massive character development alot of fluffy stories dont have. This doesn’t mean all just most. Judging by your reading list you havent read alot so I’m sure youll find something that peaks your interest! (-:

    diestodumbways September 9, 2023 2:31 am
    Idk if you’re cursing at me for answering a question that was clearly going to get an honest answer to, but if you are please take that elsewhere because I was just answering and there’s no need to attack p... Jujucat

    no not cursing at you but I feel like a manga/hwa/hua gets ruined if it's just nice and fluffy but they make the male lead or mc toxic, abusive, rapist or anything of that sort if they wanna add drama they can introduce different characters why does it have to be mc or the love interest? It ruins it as a whole because it's not romance anymore
    (also actually I have read a lot of them but I only made an account here last year so these are all the ones I just read as of now)

    Manhwaspicy September 9, 2023 3:11 am
    Tbh, Green flags get quite boring.You barely get any character development from fluffy and the stories just feel as if they’re dragging. Cherry Blossoms After Winter is an example of this. I do love it but it... Jujucat

    I don't know about y'all but I also feel the same way.

    At some point in the story, green flags get quite boring. We need some of that action to spice things up. The majority are into that nowadays. Maybe it's just my preference but to be honest, I can't manage a story being too pure with green flags flying up around. That's just too…bright and damn plain? Is that the word?

    Toxicity adds a kind of spice to it. It gets things riled up in the story. Some might not like the spice when rape is involved, correct, but from what I've seen, there are actually people that are into that…thing. It's also acceptable.

    If a story is fluffy with no toxicity, then perhaps, it has to be short to be popular. Ain't gonna lie, I did like CBAW, but I needed more, yeah, the spice;) But anywho, read what you wanna read, don't just spread hate:)

    diestodumbways September 9, 2023 3:14 am
    I don't know about y'all but I also feel the same way. At some point in the story, green flags get quite boring. We need some of that action to spice things up. The majority are into that nowadays. Maybe it's j... Manhwaspicy

    But rather than making mc or ml toxic why can't we add toxic characters why do we have to ruin a perfectly healthy relationship for the namesake of drama?? It icks me so bad how authors make a story so good and cute and then make the love interest toxic, abusive or anything of that sort only for the name of drama.
    You're just ruining a healthy relationship and feeding people into delusions that 'Oh he is a green flag so what he is doing isn't toxic at all'

    Manhwaspicy September 9, 2023 3:31 am
    But rather than making mc or ml toxic why can't we add toxic characters why do we have to ruin a perfectly healthy relationship for the namesake of drama?? It icks me so bad how authors make a story so good and... diestodumbways

    It ruins the healthy relationship they have. True, but don't you think a bit of toxicity strengthens their relationship? In the end, they talk things out and come to understand each other more. They tend to know their partner's likes and dislikes. They actually work things out and live a happy life in the end. Not everything has to be perfect. I believe that is how a relationship tends to be. I'll simply put it to be the author probably wants to be a bit realistic?

    Another point, it also depends on the reader's thoughts about the delusion thing you talked about, An educated person wouldn't eat into those delusions, they already understand the terms placed on those actions.

    But I get your point though. The way some authors do it can be quite excessive especially when it's not even correlating with their plot.

    diestodumbways September 9, 2023 3:34 am
    It ruins the healthy relationship they have. True, but don't you think a bit of toxicity strengthens their relationship? In the end, they talk things out and come to understand each other more. They tend to kno... Manhwaspicy

    I believe those which you're talking about are problems in a relationship, toxicity of a person solely (atleast for me) talks about manipulation, gas-lighting, abuse, rape and all other sorts.. the one which you're talking about are obstacles faced in a relationship and I also agree that there should obstacles in a relationship for it to be a strong one... but when somebody says toxicity the only thing I think of is abuse, manipulation and all the other stuff I listed before and there is

    Manhwaspicy September 9, 2023 3:43 am
    I believe those which you're talking about are problems in a relationship, toxicity of a person solely (atleast for me) talks about manipulation, gas-lighting, abuse, rape and all other sorts.. the one which yo... diestodumbways

    Oh, the toxic behaviors I was talking about are behaviors that make you feel unhappy, including disrespect, dishonesty, controlling behaviors, or a lack of support, yeah, and possessiveness.

    diestodumbways September 9, 2023 3:50 am
    Oh, the toxic behaviors I was talking about are behaviors that make you feel unhappy, including disrespect, dishonesty, controlling behaviors, or a lack of support, yeah, and possessiveness. Manhwaspicy

    Oh ]the controlling and dishonesty are toxic to an extent.... but they're not as extreme as I was thinking about-

    Manhwaspicy September 9, 2023 3:52 am
    Oh ]the controlling and dishonesty are toxic to an extent.... but they're not as extreme as I was thinking about- diestodumbways

    Yeahhh

    Bedazzle bitch September 9, 2023 12:32 pm

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