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random 20 05,2024
1/ "wE caN't hAve mALe fRiendShipS aNymoRe" is so jarring to me because 90% of media IS about male friendships. Maybe people like shipping M/M and W/W together often times in media where they are friends BECAUSE we have so few representation of LGBTQ+ media in main stream media in general. (Also, shipping has existed since the 60s, GenZ acting like......   2 reply
20 05,2024
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Toxic masculinity and conversations around "real men"
random 27 02,2024
Literally mentioned in my OP acknowledging the weird proportions some bottoms can have and clarified that I am not exactly arguing against that and yet people are trying to argue something completely different from my OP... My point was that some people think any form of femininity = "nOt bEinG a rEaL mAn". Even if the series at question is in fac......   reply
27 02,2024
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random 27 02,2024
Who is gonna tell all these people that "twink" is a word that was originally reclaimed by gay men themselves and that it's not just meant to be a word to shit on feminine men? Some of these replies and the fact that they are getting upvotes is actually so fucked up. Not all gay men are oiled and beefy 24/7 and nor are we always into big, beefy m......   1 reply
27 02,2024
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How to improve BL
random 12 11,2023
I read BARA as well and they don't look like they are trying to be realistic, tbh. Many queer writers mostly just want to have fun with the fiction that they write, the goal doesn't always mean having a 1:1 accurate representation of the queer experience. Which I feel like most people always expect of queer writers. As someone who writes as well, ......   1 reply
12 11,2023
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random 08 11,2023
1) The 'pure' and 'youthful' thing is much more popular WITHIN East Asia rather than internationally. That entire concept has existed before K-pop had hit the mainstream market. If anything, that concept seems to take a backseat whenever idols want to promote globally. So that is half correct. 2) Even if your intentions were not malicious and not ......   reply
08 11,2023

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Popular TV shows/comic books/manga/hwa/hua that you don't like and why?
random 27 05,2024
Not just for BL!!! But any media in general. I will go first, Bridgerton. I really couldn't like the MCs for whatever reason.
27 05,2024
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How do people handle manhwa love triangles?
random 26 05,2024
It looks like it's one of the most popular type of BL manhwa. I just end up dropping each one on the 20th chapter because it looks like it's going to one of those love triangles where the MC can't fucking decide who he wants to be with and keeps hopping between the two dudes. Or is that what gravitates people towards those manhwas?
26 05,2024
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Toxic masculinity and conversations around "real men"
random 27 02,2024
It really feels like people think talking like an alpha male podcaster about "real men" is a flex, on this site. Fiction doesn't always need to be realistic, but some people act like feminine men are not "real men" and gay men are only beefy and masculine.

Yes, there are some weirdly proportioned child-like bottoms in Yaoi, but that isn't what twinks are in the first place. Some people use 1-2 examples of those to shit on bodies that aren't hulking muscle mass.
27 02,2024
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Drop your non-toxic manga/manhwa/manhua tropes
random 18 01,2024
It's easy to list out toxic and shitty tropes, I wanna know what tropes that aren't inherently toxic, but you dislike them anyway.
18 01,2024
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Stories that you used to like but dropped later on and why? (Spoilers)
random 15 10,2023
I usually end up dropping stuff when it declines in quality and sometimes I drop it for petty reasons like when the artist changes and I don't like the art style anymore ┑(￣Д ￣)┍ Any series you used to like, but dropped for good or petty reasons.
15 10,2023

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