TBH, I am a fujoshi, and I always read yaoi mangas and watch yaoi animes. Sometimes, I kinda wonder though if there are guys who would not get turned off by gals like me who ship boy to boy relationships. Are there still guys out there who would accept fujoshis? I'm pretty bothered by it somehow. (〜￣△￣)〜
Personally I sm fujoshi too, and i have similar doubts.... When i was younger i really got turn off by guys watching porn so i think it might be similar.. but mabey some bisexual guys out there?
Personally I sm fujoshi too, and i have similar doubts.... When i was younger i really got turn off by guys watching porn so i think it might be similar.. but mabey some bisexual guys out there? @Anonymous
i don't believe that there's any guy who has access to porn and doesn't watch it occasionally. it's normal. guys who are repulsed by girl liking yaoi are either homophobical (but they sure d like girl on girl action in porn) or think girls are innocent creatures that don't know anything about sex besides what boys told them and they don't have any further interests about it because idk, it's not girly? (i've met some people like that...)
my ex thought it was weird that i'm reading gay manga but wasn't grossed out or something. it's just my interest and he accepted is as that. i mean, he probably would mind if i search his porn history, because i'm pretty sure there are some really weird stuff that he jerked off to :D
Of course there are. Would you get turned off by a guy who likes yuri? @Anonymous
uhh... well, obviously there are but it won't be easy to find one, I think haha.. I mean it's not like we have to tell them that we are a fujoshi right? if I have a boyfriend who still wants to date me even though he knew I am a fujoshi, I'll be so grateful for it!ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
i don't believe that there's any guy who has access to porn and doesn't watch it occasionally.it's normal. guys who are repulsed by girl liking yaoi are either homophobical (but they sure d like girl on girl ac... @ani
Well the world would be so wonderfull if everyone was accepting and understanding.. but as it is i think they are a lot of people who got turn off by whatever reason... myself I accepted that ots of guys like watching porn and now i am ok with that but sitll i am not feeling guilty that i would not accept and want to be with somone haveing some fetishes -sorry scatology guys, pedophiles etc i know you are somewhere there but i am not willing to be with a person like that. in my surroundings, most of the guys wouldalso have hard time accepting fujoshi, and i am not siprised.
Well the world would be so wonderfull if everyone was accepting and understanding.. but as it is i think they are a lot of people who got turn off by whatever reason... myself I accepted that ots of guys like w... @Anonymous
of course there are many people that wouldn't understand but it's not like all people are like that, and if someone doesn't support you with stuff you like you shouldn't be with him. i just wanted to say that girls are sexual creatures as much as boys (even thought the way we express it sometimes is different) and if you like something your partner should accept that, if not, you shouldn't be together. fetishes and yaoi arent the same, i mean my ex never had to read yaoi with me, it was just my thing, but when it comes to fetishes (mostly xD) you need to do them together. and please do not put pedophilia as fetish, that's really wrong.
uhh... well, obviously there are but it won't be easy to find one, I think haha.. I mean it's not like we have to tell them that we are a fujoshi right? if I have a boyfriend who still wants to date me even tho... @Anonymous
People are a lot more accepting than you think they are! And it's not like being a fujo is all you are, right? The first impression you make on someone isn't going to be the fact that you like seeing dudes on dudes. And anyway, on the spectrum of "weird shit to be into", liking dudes kissing is...pretty tame. Your boyfriend will probably have worse, and if you can accept that I bet you'll find someone who will accept you just fine. :)
I'm married and at first, my husband was annoyed by my reading yaoi because he thought it was gross. But then he quickly learned he was reaping the benefits, so to speak and now he's perfectly okay with it.
TBH, I am a fujoshi, and I always read yaoi mangas and watch yaoi animes. Sometimes, I kinda wonder though if there are guys who would not get turned off by gals like me who ship boy to boy relationships. Are there still guys out there who would accept fujoshis? I'm pretty bothered by it somehow. (〜￣△￣)〜
Of course there are. Would you get turned off by a guy who likes yuri?
Personally I sm fujoshi too, and i have similar doubts....
When i was younger i really got turn off by guys watching porn so i think it might be similar.. but mabey some bisexual guys out there?
i don't believe that there's any guy who has access to porn and doesn't watch it occasionally.
it's normal. guys who are repulsed by girl liking yaoi are either homophobical (but they sure d like girl on girl action in porn) or think girls are innocent creatures that don't know anything about sex besides what boys told them and they don't have any further interests about it because idk, it's not girly? (i've met some people like that...)
my ex thought it was weird that i'm reading gay manga but wasn't grossed out or something. it's just my interest and he accepted is as that. i mean, he probably would mind if i search his porn history, because i'm pretty sure there are some really weird stuff that he jerked off to :D
uhh... well, obviously there are but it won't be easy to find one, I think haha.. I mean it's not like we have to tell them that we are a fujoshi right? if I have a boyfriend who still wants to date me even though he knew I am a fujoshi, I'll be so grateful for it!ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
Well the world would be so wonderfull if everyone was accepting and understanding.. but as it is i think they are a lot of people who got turn off by whatever reason... myself I accepted that ots of guys like watching porn and now i am ok with that but sitll i am not feeling guilty that i would not accept and want to be with somone haveing some fetishes -sorry scatology guys, pedophiles etc i know you are somewhere there but i am not willing to be with a person like that.
in my surroundings, most of the guys wouldalso have hard time accepting fujoshi, and i am not siprised.
of course there are many people that wouldn't understand but it's not like all people are like that, and if someone doesn't support you with stuff you like you shouldn't be with him.
i just wanted to say that girls are sexual creatures as much as boys (even thought the way we express it sometimes is different) and if you like something your partner should accept that, if not, you shouldn't be together. fetishes and yaoi arent the same, i mean my ex never had to read yaoi with me, it was just my thing, but when it comes to fetishes (mostly xD) you need to do them together.
and please do not put pedophilia as fetish, that's really wrong.
People are a lot more accepting than you think they are! And it's not like being a fujo is all you are, right? The first impression you make on someone isn't going to be the fact that you like seeing dudes on dudes. And anyway, on the spectrum of "weird shit to be into", liking dudes kissing is...pretty tame. Your boyfriend will probably have worse, and if you can accept that I bet you'll find someone who will accept you just fine. :)
I'm married and at first, my husband was annoyed by my reading yaoi because he thought it was gross. But then he quickly learned he was reaping the benefits, so to speak and now he's perfectly okay with it.