。*Phi* 。's Things

I don’t understand why people say “your disgusting to think rape is ok in fiction” to people who read yaoi, hentai and other.
Because I feel really hurt when people say I am disgusting and revolting because of what I read

I read those things but that doesn’t mean I wish for them to come true in real life
If I fantasize about 2 characters doing it, it doesn’t mean I want to see in real life
I am not thinking about 2 ACTUAL PEOPLE WHO ARE LIVING IN THIS EARTH doing each other

I feel like the word ‘rape’ is being misused in rape fantasies
Personally I think of it as someone controlling me, but that is my opinion
For people who say that people who fantasize about rape and think rape is ok in fiction are disgusting and gross, fair enough maybe you don’t know to much but have you ever considered other people’s feelings ?? Do you know that there are people who don’t fantasize about rape but still read this media
You might say “oh but since you think that you must be one of those disgusting people”
To that I say no, I am not disgusting for reading it, to me it seems you are more belittling us more than trying to make a point.

The thing is rape in yaoi hentai is different in irl, I don’t know how to explain this well but when you see yaoi starting with uke being sexually harassed by seme and it continues on like that for a few chapters, you might see the comment section saying how seme is bad and a jerk and then it changes becaus the character becomes more nicer toward uke.
That would be different if it had no story, there litterelly was no plot for the sexy parts.
The comment section would be way different, it wouldn’t be talking about the characters but solely on segs

Which means the rape on the fiction is MEANT TO BE THERE, fiction exsist for a reason, do you know why horror exsist even though we are scared of it ??? It really doesn’t make sense because fiction and reality are 2 worlds apart, the person responsible is the viewer, they are the ones who decide what to do with what they have read.

“Oh but this person watches this and became a terrible person” well again, that person is responsible for there actions

Just because I read about segs stuff and rape in fiction doesn’t mean I about bound to want it to happen to me irl, just because you read sci-di doesn’t mean you will become a scientist and travel through time and space.

In summary, rape on real life is bad and disgusting, fantasizing about rape or being controlled is ok I think you can fantasize about anything, I also fantasize sometimes about it fantasizing it to me is ok as long as it is not putting you into physical harm or harm in reality.
Rape in fiction is ok, my opinion on this one is based off of what I read in the past. I think it’s ok becaus 1-it’s fiction, 2- the 2 characters are meant to be like that, the top and bottom are meant to have a sexual relationship/contact with each other but if it is another character than it’s a no go because at this point in the novel Uke already likes seme
And 3- rape in fiction meant to be in it, rape again between the 2 main is what is meant to happen and even if it is not it’s there for a reason
An example “the Beast must be tamed” had the Uke being raped by these other character that is not seme, i hates those characters and I felt so for the uke because he had to go through this, that is what I meant

If you disagree with all that I said then I can say nothing more, I just want to tell you this t inform you more, and to add not once have I said “disgusting or “stupid to the people who disagree with me because I don’t want to be mean about it.

Couple hair colour as in black hair dude ML pink hair FL blonde 2nd ML kinda thing
Antagonist is light blue hair...hhh

That thing... I can’t think of one that I haven’t seen
I can’t really think of one besides neon green and pink
Black hair dudes with every coloured hair FL
Yeah

Ok so
t the beginning of my reading BL adventure I came across the word fujoshi

I thought that it meant someone who likes to read or watch bL/yaoi and that is what I sus to say to others about me

It was not then I realized that it apparently meant a bad thing
I guess it still kinda means someone who like yaoi????
I am now confused on the actual meaning about it

I also want to know how to tell a fujoshi
Cause I saw a post saying “dear fujoshis”
It had like said things about them and how they need to stop fetishizing gay men, not being LGBTQ, stop despising lesbians and wanting to be gay

I read through these and I got worried that I would be one as one of them since I once use to say
“I have gender envy”
I only found that on TikTok and I thought it was alright to say or that it was like another joke, I didn’t think that people ACTUALLY had gender envy and wanted to be a different genders

This was one of the things that the “dear dear fujoshi” post said
It said about how they want only to be gay for there sick fantasies

I don’t want to be gay for that reason or gay in general, but does that have to do with feeling like a boy? Because gender envy is like...wanting to become opposite of what you are, I am a female but don’t reallt want to be male just feel more like it...like if I feel like a boy I wear pants or I lower my skirt(my infirm requires me to wear them daily).

My 2nd thing is ‘you love gay people but despise lesbians’
In that “dear fujoshi” post it said that, i don’t read GL cause I’m not really use to it and the only one I have read is the one by the creator of 19 days , is that Realatwd ??? I don’t despise lesbians, they are just lesbians and that’s that. And loving gay people in the way the “dear fujoshi” said I don’t really think like that
If I see 2 guys on the street walking together holding hands then I would just walk past instead of staring T them,cause it’s weird to stare at them just cause of that

Also what if a fujoshi ? I want a detailed explanation because the passed years I have been hearing tht it’s “person who likes reading BL”

“Person who is obsessed with Yaoi and want to be man”

Or

“Person who enjoys engaging in reading homosexual books”

So please tell me to see, I don’t think I am but I feel like I am caus I use to do some of those things in past